There's no point rushing it, its not something to be proud bout, or something u should go out and scream to the world wen u have lost it, its somethign that takes time, and it'll come to you wen the time is right. looking for it and rushing it will only make it turn into something other than love and thats really really damn important

I'd say they were both right. How you lose your virginity is much more important than when.

You want it to be with the right person, the right place and you want to have taken all the precautions to make sure all you take from it is a pleasurable experience-birth control, condoms, etc.

You should also be emotionally ready. That means thinking about how this is going to change your life and the life of your partner.

When you are ready to deal with all the hassle, then you are ready to have sex for the first time. Otherwise, stay proud to be a virgin.

so true tease
i was a virgin till i was 22 also and it didn't really bother me.
im sure sometimes its easier for a girl to be a virgin later on than a guy but don't let that get you down.
don't feel desperate and just do it to do it.
theres nothing wrong w/ waiting for that special someone.
for some people losing their virginity isn't a big deal, for others its a major deal.
just let things happen and don't rush. it will happen

i didn't lose mine till i was 22 (i'm 23 now) and honestly, i felt very proud for being one....because most people my age weren't anymore. they lost it around 17 or 18 or younger.

so if you're like 17 or 18 or whatever don't "rush" into it. don't go out and lose it just cause everyone else has or because you're desparate to get some or to try it. be proud of who you are.
when the right person comes along, you'll know it.