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fine wine...u roc....i love it!!!

sweetheart, sexy doesn't have to be wearing some black lingerie and groping yourself (though the piece posted suggesting that was very beautifully writtien)

sexy can be handing him his coffee and biting your lip in that cute way or running your fingers through his hair.

the same post i just referenced also said to just let your femininity shine through. that's the key. be natural and be yourself. you'll be sexy to someone who loves you.

[QUOTE=Quote (finewine @ Nov. 06 2005,22:58)]Sexy is knowing that you are desirable.
Sexy is letting him know that you are hot for him, teasing him with foreplay all through the day, telling him how he lights your fire.
Sexy is being with him and seducing him with your voice, your body language, your touch.
Sexy is making him feel like a King, cherished, and wanted.
Sexy is having him chase you a bit and keeping him on his toes.
Sexy can be wearing an oversize sweatshirt and nothing underneath or wearing that seductive lingerie underneath a low cut blouse and form fitting jeans or skirt.
Sexy is standing in front of him and caressing your body with your hands from head to toe with some fondling of your breast and between your legs.
Sexy can be coming up behind him and kissing his neck, putting your arms around him, and telling him you want him.
Sexy can be pulling him close to you and grabbing his ass with your hands and saying you are going to devour him.[/QUOTE]
That made me so hot ...

[QUOTE=Quote (finewine @ Nov. 06 2005,22:58)]Sexy is knowing that you are desirable.
Sexy is letting him know that you are hot for him, teasing him with foreplay all through the day, telling him how he lights your fire.
Sexy is being with him and seducing him with your voice, your body language, your touch.
Sexy is making him feel like a King, cherished, and wanted.
Sexy is having him chase you a bit and keeping him on his toes.
Sexy can be wearing an oversize sweatshirt and nothing underneath or wearing that seductive lingerie underneath a low cut blouse and form fitting jeans or skirt.
Sexy is standing in front of him and caressing your body with your hands from head to toe with some fondling of your breast and between your legs.
Sexy can be coming up behind him and kissing his neck, putting your arms around him, and telling him you want him.
Sexy can be pulling him close to you and grabbing his ass with your hands and saying you are going to devour him.

There are many aspects to sexiness.
Just experiment and see what he likes and do those things.

You lead now and again, Claire.
Be yourself, let your natural femininity loose on him. It is that femininity that is sexy.
Be creative in your approaches to sex. Add a twist to the comfortable to spice it up.[/QUOTE]
finewine...that post is legend! i love it!!!

I understand that you are shy, I am too. It took me forever to have sex with the lights on, or let my partner see me naked, or anything like that.

It can be tough to 'teach sexy'. Finewine did a good job with her post.

You MUST have some confidence to be sexy!!!!! Go out and buy something that makes YOU confident and makes YOU feel sexy. Men LOVE a confident woman/girl. Sometime cute and coi is sexy too, but once in a while you just got to grab him and to what you want to him!!

An Idea......
Put on sexy underwear (or be naked it your comfortable) and sit him on the couch/a chair/edge of bed and kiss and tease him while undoing his pants and pulling all his bottoms off and give him oral. Make sure you position yourself so he can see what your doing. Look at him and smile slightly. Behave as those his penis is the tasties thing you've ever had and you cannot get enough. If you can position a mirror so he can see.

Sexy is knowing that you are desirable.
Sexy is letting him know that you are hot for him, teasing him with foreplay all through the day, telling him how he lights your fire.
Sexy is being with him and seducing him with your voice, your body language, your touch.
Sexy is making him feel like a King, cherished, and wanted.
Sexy is having him chase you a bit and keeping him on his toes.
Sexy can be wearing an oversize sweatshirt and nothing underneath or wearing that seductive lingerie underneath a low cut blouse and form fitting jeans or skirt.
Sexy is standing in front of him and caressing your body with your hands from head to toe with some fondling of your breast and between your legs.
Sexy can be coming up behind him and kissing his neck, putting your arms around him, and telling him you want him.
Sexy can be pulling him close to you and grabbing his ass with your hands and saying you are going to devour him.

There are many aspects to sexiness.
Just experiment and see what he likes and do those things.

You lead now and again, Claire.
Be yourself, let your natural femininity loose on him. It is that femininity that is sexy.
Be creative in your approaches to sex. Add a twist to the comfortable to spice it up.

[QUOTE=Quote (kitty_robyn @ Dec. 01 2005,03:36)]sexy can be handing him his coffee and biting your lip in that cute way or running your fingers through his hair.[/QUOTE]
Absolutely!!!
Add that one into it!!
One of my favorites.

Claire
Truely you won't feel like an idiot if it is truely how you feel towards your hunk of heaven.

He will love you for it. It is just between you and him anyway.
I don't think he will think you an idiot. I think he will have a warm response to you between his legs so use your sexiness wisely.
Your femininity is a gift of beauty to him.