I've been seeing this girl for a bit... and she really likes when I get rough with her. I hold her hands down and stuff like that, but she loves it when I curse at her and such. I'm not talking about really talking dirty, because I know how to do that. But, maybe someone could give me ideas on what to say to keep it fresh. For example, one time I said, "Give me those F***ing hands" and it drove her crazy. I don't want to call her names, but something along the lines of being mean but not rude. Any ideas?
Wed, 10/27/2004 - 20:17
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Being rough/mean
Yeah that is useful stuff... thanks alot. I'll try this stuff out soon. I mean... i wanna keep it fresh.
I'm not familiar with telling mean words but I'll try to provide help the way I can.
I think that when telling "mean" words, the intonation is just as important as the words themselves (especially if she's beyond caring for words).
It depends alot on how specific is her fetish. You said she didn't like being called a slut or a whore so don't try this line.
Still, she enjoys when you're talking like a trucker. Is it swearing that gets her off or something else ? Also, she might like recieving orders or commanding words. Just like everything else in sex, it's all about communication and experimentation. BTW, try asking her what she wants but use personal initiative too.
If you're really just looking for sentences, try these and get more from reading erotic fiction. Add swearing as necessary. Those sentences might have more impact if accompanied by initiative such as undressing her or switching positions.
"Spread those legs. NOW !"
"So you like it, huh ? HUH ?!"
"Don't move now, because you're mine..."
Hahaha ! Man, I feel so awkward writing this. Oh well, it's for your girlfriend, not mine. I sincerly hope this helped you. Don't take my advice too seriously, I'm no good at this. Take what you like, leave the rest. Remember the intonation is important. Good luck !
i'd recommend watching a few pornos. they seem to be really good at it
[QUOTE=Quote (Villain @ Oct. 27 2004,13:17)]I don't want to call her names, but something along the lines of being mean but not rude. Any ideas?[/QUOTE]
She would probably like that tho. She sounds like she might be the type who likes to be called a bitch or slut.
But don't do anything you aren't comfortable with, even if it turns her on.
I personally would feel weird calling a girl that if I was a guy.
She doesn't want me to call her a bitch or a slut, and I wouldn't do that anyway... it seems so disrespectful. I'm just looking for some things to say to her that might make her excited. I can't use "give me those f***ing hands" everytime...