im very sensitive to getting wet, usually it only takes me n my boyfriend making out with heavy petting to get me wet. so i started putting in slim tampons to catch it because i hated having to clean up afterward (cuz we're always at a friends house or at the mall or whatever) but now he wants to finger me and i kno i wont get the full feeling with a tampon in. i also dont want to wear tampons outside of having my period because of t.s.s. any ways on how to fix my cum-sensitivity?
Sun, 02/08/2004 - 19:37
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being fingered
Courtney114, just accept the way you are, and know that you are perfectly normal, the quicker you learn this and learn how ur body reacts to different stimuli the more ull get out of exploring the sex arena with you b/f . there/s nothing wrong with you.
haha, okies. thank you all very much. i feel a lot better about it, and now i kno about the pantiliner idea so i'll be sure to give it a shot. hopefully everything goes well =) thanks again
~C
My gf is the same way, doesn't take much to get her pretty wet. I'll tell ya, if he's anything like me it will be a big turnon that you get wet easily (like Lucid said).
And if my gf wore a pantyliner for that reason, I may ask about it (I'm a guy, we don't wear those and I wouldn't know better) but I'd end up thinking it was a good idea really.
you know, i actually think they make pantyliners for thongs/g-strings. i swear i've seen them in the store.
and people were pantyliners all the time. one of my friends does.
some use them to keep fresh down there.
some use them so if they do "leak" (accidental pee or even unexpected discharge of fluid) down there, their undies won't get wet .
some use them as light day pads.
so so what if he says something about it.
just say something like you're using it to keep a little freshness down there.
edit:
see. not crazy.
http://www.kotex.com/products/product.asp?h=l
they make thong pantyliners.
i usually wear gstrings...but now that i think about it, i could always cut out part of a pantiliner to fit the gstring...good idea. thank you very much for your help.
i kno i keep asking more n more questions lol. but if he sees the pantiliner, wont he say something about it?
yes.. but don't you think he would say something if he felt a tampon??? but sweetie.. don't you worry and half thet ime it turns guys on LOL being wet.. :P
jamie
thank you for your help. i forgot to mention that sometimes he just rubs my clit from outside my pants or digs his fingers in from the outside of the pants..and having a tampon in, i wasnt getting the full feeling. i definitely dont want to fake it. i get kind of embarrased too, because its so easy to get me wet. is that abnormal to be embarrased? i really just want to be able to control myself, i suppose.
if you don't want your undies to become wet, try wearing a pantyliner.
that way, afterwards, you can just throw the pantyliner away and your undies will still be fresh and dry.
and archer is right.
when girls become turned on, most of us get wet, atleast a little bit.
when guys become turned on, they get an erection.
there's really no way to stop either of them. it's a natural process.
i dont think there is any way of "fixing" how wet u become wen u are turned on. i reckon you should consider yourself lucky, some girls dont have this and penetration hurts extremely. i dont think you want the tampon there wen he penetrates you either, it'll b kind of weird.
Becoming wet is just your body's natural response to being stimulated and helps lubricate the member which is going to pentrate you. i dont think u can help it as much as a guy cant stop an erection wen he is turned on. just hte way it is i guess.