have a long break of not ejaculating at all for maybe a few days or so and then spend it all on your girlfriend.

Umm doesn't sound like he could last a day or so lol.

Yes just be happy w/ what you got lol :)

> I like to cum, a LOT. In fact, yesterday I was bored and jacked off 6 times over the course of the day. That's a lot of times.

Yea.....good observation, that. I remember those days of spending more time masturbating than watching TV; although, SIX (6)! maybe when I was fourteen. Most guys older than that are limited to about three times a day, maybe four once in a while. These can be spread out over the course of a day and/or combined in a session for multiples.

> When I'm with my girl, about the most I can cum is 3 times per day. I'd like to be able to cum more, but she can't give me the precisely calibrated stimulation I need to have more orgasms.

> What can I do about this?

First of all she has to be ready, willing, and able, to devote the time to this that you enjoy. She may have "a life" and not want to do this as much as you would like her to. If you do not discuss this beforehand, I can bet she will want to later. You need to put into perspective just how much time overall is spent with all this--and, how much time it takes to work up each one because the later ones usually do require more time and effort than the first couple.

This is your fifty-first post. I wonder if in your time here you have read any of the Sticky Posts listed in the INDEX. Over the course of my two thousand plus posts, I have written many times about how each partner can learn the other's "Fine Art" of "precisely calibrated stimulation" needed "to have more orgasms;" enough times that I decided to create a Sticky post. Now admittedly this procedure works best for the first three so I do not know how successful it would be in your quest for four, five, and six. Anyway, here is the information, again:

BTW, I like your term of "precisely calibrated stimulation". I may copy this for use in future replies of this ilk. :cool:

What is required for the first, and the second, and third, is for her to learn the Fine Art of your hand technique that is unique and specific to you. This is done by two steps. First, demonstrate how you masturbate in order for her to gain a visual idea of what is required; second, take her hand in yours and guide her movements over the course of several sessions until she learns how to mimic your rhythms, tempo, and, pressures. As part of this is the necessity to provide her with feedback on how you are responding to her caresses and for what you might need, now. Note: this also works for her with you.

Feedback is very important and becomes most necessary the more climaxes you attempt. When a person masturbates, s/he benefits from an internal feedback that lets them monitor their progress, modulate their movements, and make any midcourse corrections necessary. This is missing when we turn the reins over to our partner, so, providing verbal or non-verbal cues is crucial.

I for one would like to know how more difficult you find it when trying to have more than three orgasms; and, how often you have more than three in a day. Care to give an honest answer? :confused:

It may be that while my method will help you with the first two or three, it may or may not be what you require for the additional climaxes. I just do not know. If so--fantastic. If not, then you may have to adapt. Something else to keep in mind is that your girlfriend's, arm and wrist will probably tire at some point along the way. The solution for this is to just keep practicing in order to build up muscle memory and stamina. For her to switch hands along the way usually proves fruitless.

I recommend that the two of you read the Sticky article on -
How Do I Get Him/Her to Orgasm From a Hand/Blow Job?

In addition, here is a link, that might provide additional insight. Please read my reply at the end, beginning with (2.):

Learn where your hot spots are. The A#1 spot is the Frenulum {Y-shaped ridge of skin extending from the cleft to the top of the shaft on the underside.) One or more others are arbitrarily distributed around the Corona rim. Let her know where these are, have her stimulate these more than usual when going after those extended orgasms. Using a lubricated thumb or finger to rub the Frenulum when you are at the brink of an orgasm is pretty much guaranteed to trigger it.

Lastly, it just may be that as problematical as those extended orgasms are to achieve, you might have to work cooperatively on this by stimulating yourself to the trigger point and then turning the last bit over to her and if necessary guiding her movements the last little bit. I don't know. You'll just have to experiment and work together on all this.

Good luck and let me know what progress and success you achieve.

Got questions??

P.S. I've been wanting to ask you if you work at a Jiffy Lube?