Anytime me or my boyfriend have sex from behind,( being me doing reverse cowgirl on top of him or him from behind me ), it hurts really bad for me. My stomach hurts so bad and I can't enjoy it at all. He loves how it feels for him , and i want to be able to do it for him - but I can't get over the pain .
Its basically like I feel an intense amount of pressure on my stomach and it hurts very very bad.
Does anyone know why this is ? or how I can stop it from hurting ??
tell him it hurts he should then stop and then i suggest maybe trying it a few more times or find a position that greatly pleases you both
Try readjusting the position you are in, he may be striking your cervix. If not, skip it for a while.
Either he's hitting the cervix or, depending upon the curve to his penis, he's riding up over and above the cervix both of which are PAINFUL and BAD.
He may be unaware but riding up above the cervix, he can penetrate through the vagina into the abdomin and you'll bleed like a stuck pig and exsanguinate - trip to the emergency surgery ward for you! Do not laugh it happened to me when I was 16 - not a fun time.
Your guy needs to improve his skills, hun. Tell him to find the posterior fornix and focus upon that instead.
[quote=EvilEvilKitten;187661]Either he's hitting the cervix or, depending upon the curve to his penis, he's riding up over and above the cervix both of which are PAINFUL and BAD.
He may be unaware but riding up above the cervix, he can penetrate through the vagina into the abdomin and you'll bleed like a stuck pig and exsanguinate - trip to the emergency surgery ward for you! Do not laugh it happened to me when I was 16 - not a fun time.
Your guy needs to improve his skills, hun. Tell him to find the posterior fornix and focus upon that instead.[/quote]
Geez...Evil! 16? You poor thing! What he get you with a sword?