A recent hook up told me that he was doing all the work. I just started having sex, so I am very inexperienced. It is true that he is the one thrusting and 'doing the work', but when I tried to match his rhythm I felt as if I was off so I stopped. What do I need to do to be more involved and helpful? What do I need to do? I want to be good and please him as much as he pleases me...I need tips and advice badly!!!! (Female teenager)
Mon, 10/04/2010 - 06:18
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Beg. Female in Need Advice and Tips ASAP
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why dont you try being on top? alot of guys enjoy watching a girl riding them until they reach orgasim
I agree with EEK,read info about pleasing him,check out the sex positions,and find some that you really like and that you think will exite him.Also if you're not really comfortable with masturbating yourself try reading the tips re female mastubation.I found all of these things helped me with issues i had re confidence in myself and my ability to please my partner.After only a little over two months of accidentally finding this site and forum my confidence levels in myself as a person,and in my abilities to pleasure my partner and receieve it in return ,have peaked dramatically.EEK has played a big part of this change in me by giving me a few well founded words of wisdom which were like a good slap in the face which i really needed to wake myself up out of my "sleeping beauty" slumber
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Thank you, Raunchy. Glad I could help.
I agree, try riding him cowgirl. That way, you'll be doing most of the work.
He might also mean that he wants you to take the initiative instead of waiting for him to. Like try initiating a blow job with him. If he wants to get involved too, then 69 him so he can lick your pussy while you're sucking his cock.