ok so i know this topic has been mentioned a zillion plus 1 times but when i masterbate i try to message clitoris and i'll finger myself, i'll do the whole dirty thoughts and caressing of the body but that never works. the only way i ever come is with the water facet in my shower but i don't like that method because it gives me cramps and makes my clit hurt after a while. i do what you guys tell me to do and i'll continue through the feeling that i have to pee but nothing it's like i'm dead down there and my fingers go all numb and it's not a pleasent feeling. is there something wrong with me?
Tue, 08/22/2006 - 06:29
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beating a dead horse
No, there isn't anything wrong with you. Most girls have a hard time orgasming when they first start masturbation. If you have any access to a sex toy, then I would suggest trying that. If not, then there are ways to make homemade toys. One that I hear over and over is a handle from a brush. If it feels uncomfortable due to the material, you can put a lubricated condom over it (if you don't feel comfortable buying condoms, you can get them in some gas station restrooms in a machine, usually $0.75 or $1 in the US). Move it slowly until you get a feel that it will be comfortable for you. See how that works!
Here's what one of my friends told me a few years back:
Put a condom on the back end of an electric toothbrush (the butt or hilt, not the part with the bristles) and it becomes a vibrator. I've never tried it, but it sounds plausible.