I'm still a virgin and I was just wondering how do the fellas feel about jacking off too many times.I dont if this is an implication of how long I can last in bed or whatever but I'm able to whack-off a good 9 times a day everyday,and I do mean everyday, if I choose to do so.Does this mean I will be able to go for as long as I want because I was told by a friend that whacking off could possibly help you last longer.Also, the one time I came close to having sex I also,as I was attemtpting to insert the head into her vagina,she was sayin it was kinda hurting her but I felt absolutly nothing at all!!Is that a result my jacking of too much or is that how it's supposed to feel?
Thu, 12/23/2004 - 05:37
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Beating off
Did you masterbate before you tried sex with your gf? Some guys with masterbate before they're going to be with a girl. It will help them last longer and also it relieves some tension and their erection won't be as big and hard. That could help lessen the pain your gf is experiencing.
The only time masturbation is a problem is when you become obsessive about it.... when it takes the place of wanting to do anything else. Or if you do it so much you make yourself sore...lol... but that's usually a self-correcting problem.
Masturbation- especially before sex- might make you a little less sensitive, but it shouldn't cause you any problems. In fact, some men masturbate before sex to help them last longer.
As for your girlfriend's pain, I can't add much to what has been said... some women experience pain during sex- especially at first. You can both work on that by getting her used to insertion... fingers and/or a vibrator/dildo can help.
[QUOTE=Quote (emoney @ Dec. 22 2004,21:37)]I'm still a virgin[/QUOTE]
You got that right
[QUOTE=Quote (JustTrying2BeAGOODBoyfriend @ Dec. 23 2004,15:26)]Now let me get this straight, "she" said it hurt right? Well for most girls, ok all of them, it hurts the first couple of times, some pain even still persist even after the 20th time, so if said it hurt, you shouldn't be hurting, which your not, and her pain is not a result of you jacking off too much... hehe, wouldn't you know it your getting sex 101 from a 15 year old...
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i'm pretty sure he was not thinking that she was hurting because he jacked off so much, he meant that he didn't feel anything because he jacks off so much.
now emoney, i'm guessing that's the only time you've tried it then, and you were probably wearing a condom.if you were wearing a condom, that might have a little to do with the lack of feeling right at first. you will end up feeling it, and i'd recommend the "ultra-thin" condoms. you get more feeling using those. if you plan on having sex, try not masturbating for a few days before you do it. it may help with the sensitivity issue as well.
Now let me get this straight, "she" said it hurt right? Well for most girls, ok all of them, it hurts the first couple of times, some pain even still persist even after the 20th time, so if said it hurt, you shouldn't be hurting, which your not, and her pain is not a result of you jacking off too much... hehe, wouldn't you know it your getting sex 101 from a 15 year old...
There's a bunch of posts on this topic.
Try searching around some. You might get the answer you're looking for.
hmm well it could be from masterbating that much... you can numb the senses down there...
shit man u know what i hate ... when u type a whole response and u accidentally erase it man i like worte u a page.
arr man i will give u an answer tommaorw i am too angry to answer it all over again.