hey again everyone =) i want to thank the people who helped me last time with my handjob issue...i managed to get over myself, not be nervous, and get it accomplished...my boyfriend was thrilled and he enjoyed it thoroughly.
this time, i have a bigger problem. i wanted to come here first because im in a panic and i tend to get answers here faster. i'll most likely be making a doctors appointment soon, but i really hate talking about this stuff face to face.
my boyfriend lately has been fingering the same way as always, but i was getting sore the last few times. i even had him stop for a few days because of the soreness...no soreness on the outside, but inside it hurt incredibly. mastubating, tho granted not the best idea, didnt hurt either when kept on the outside. however, today he pushed his finger up maybe twice because he was being a tease. i went to the bathroom and found thick blood on my underwear. nervous, i grabbed a tampon. i told him about it and then came home. i'm not sure if its just my period (two weeks early) or if we managed to puncture something. i was hoping maybe someone with medical background or past similar problems would read this and give me some ideas as to what this could be. everyone has helped me and encouraged me so much before that i decided to post on this. im sorry this is so long. any help is greatly appreciated. thank you very much.
~C 
hmm i don't know.
you mentioned it was thick blood?
i know when im on my period the blood is thicker...kind of clotty i guess and more of a dark red.
if the blood is recent..say from a fresh wound it would tend to be more bright red.
maybe he had a bad nail or something and scraped it or like you said it might be your period.
i would definetly keep an eye on it.
it might be better for you to use a pad rather than a tampon. if it is a scratch or puncture i don't think a tampon would be good rubbing up against it.. i dunno.
just watch it and see if any other symptoms occur that you usually have when you are on your period. and definetly lay off anything sexual for awhile.
if you are still worried and/or bleeding see your DR.
when i got home and removed the tampon, there was bright red blood on it, and i considered that theory..a scratch or something. one of my friends said he may have broken my hymen (sp?) as im still a virgin but when i woke up today i had a full pad of period-like blood. usually when i have my period nothing happens except a sense of it coming. i did have that sense yesterday, but i put it aside because of how early i am. if i still have heavy bleeding by the end of tonight i am going to call my doctor and have it checked out.
thank you very much for your help =)
~C
yeah im probably thinking its just your period has come early.
the hymen is located right at the entrance of the vagina. for the most part, girls who use tampons and have been fingered, etc. have already lost theres. or at least worn some of it away. also, stretching and exercise does this too.
the first time i had sex, i had no problem. i had been using tampons and such for years. i don't ever remember having a hymen lol.
i guess in the future just make sure your b/f has his fingernails clipped good and that you are plenty wet enough.