My boyfriend and I were looking at a sex chart. He pointed out one of the positions we couldnt do. Standing sex. He's 6'1 or something like that, and i'm 5'6. Anyways he got really red after pointing it out. Anyways to get to the point he said my vagina is located too close to the front of my body. He's had many partners before me, and said im the first like this. Myself I thought I was normal down there lol. He's my first partner so first time being commented like that.
Any comments or suggestions?
Tue, 02/06/2007 - 05:54
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This is awkward...Has anyone this problem?
1. You are not missing that much from my standpoint. Standing sex is not that special for many women and height differential is a major reasons for that.
2. He may have been with many women but I doubt that he is knowledgeable enough to know whether your parts are properly placed. Sounds more like another man who sees all good sex being their contribution and all bad sex experience as being the fault of the woman.
3. If this really bugs you, see a gyn and let her determine what is where. I am constantly amazed at how little men know about our bodies.
It is isn't just men who know so little, witness this question.
If you can't do standing up, it is no big deal. Neither can I and there are plenty of other things you can do that are even more exciting.
stools to make one taller?
I once went out with a girl & we couldnt do doggie because her vagina was too close to the front. When she put her ass in the air i couldnt even see her fadge from the back.
I have felt your pain. I am five foot nothing and my honey is six foot two. If this is something that you want to do there are variations on this position. He can hold you up against a wall and you wrap your legs around him or do it in a hallway where your legs can reach the other side and prop them up on the opposite wall. Its not exactly the same but it has the same upright effect.