Saw this in Pleasing Him forum (What's the Difference -- What makes a woman awesome in bed) thought it could be here too.

So gals
What makes a man AWESOME HOT in bed for you??
Take this survey for me and please feel free to expand on any of the items and add your own.
And guys you can add your comments too about what makes a guy AWESOME HOT in bed.

On a scale of 1-10  10 being SIZZLING & 1 being ice cold
rate the following:

1. He is confident.
2. He has a sense of humor.
3. He knows when to be gentle and when to be rough.
4. He knows when to tease and wait and when to go after it.
5. He is enthusiastic.
6. He is willing to do new things.
7. He has creative and clever surprises in foreplay.
8. He knows the mood to create --- romantic, wild, or naughty.
9. He is happy with just cuddling every now and then.
10. He knows how and when to lead and not to lead the action.
11. He wants multiple orgasms for you and him
12. He communicates hid pleasure verbally.
13. He knows how to pace the action for optimum pleasure for you and himself.
14.. He knows your turn-ons and turns you on....