Hello all ! 
background info is i have been going out with my bf almost 6months, and he is sooooo special and we have agreed we have each never felt like this for anyone before... to cut it short we are both very happy and not ending on ending such a good thing for years to come! (preferably never!)
In the time ive been going out with him the longest we have been without seeing each other is 2weeks. I wont be seeing him until the end of jan (having been apart for 3 or 4weeks!) and would like to do something "special"
Im just looking for some opinions from people. I know he gets really turned on by me wearing certain clothes, and i have bought some new underwear as well 
i just want to do everything i can to show him how much i care! just looking for extra ideas to make him the happiest guy on the planet
cheers,
secretly shy x
a lot of guys like the whole school girl outfit
lol
he might definetly since he's a teacher.
you could be bad and he could spank you
Cool
some good ideas here!
i'll continue to do it!!
trim would be different, and if i get a positive reaction
any input from guys? what has your girly done for you?
several different ideas would be great, as we are going away for a weekend during feb half term (he's a teacher and im a uni student, so we're both busy in term time!) so any ideas i dont use this time i can use next time...
...im thinking new undies under my silk dressing gown for the hotel, for the other day im thinking known favourite or role play??
i need ideas!!!!!!
i apparently do things backwards in life. lol.
i acutally like eating dessert before i eat my meal. lol.
i sorta kissed him once, but it was just more of a "see if he would let me do it" type peck on the lips...so i didn't really count that. (my first actual kiss i do not count because it was forced on me. i did not enjoy it nor did it want it).
it just came as a surprise to me cause i didn't expect him to do it. it was just a quick peck but really didn't expect him to do it. our relationship is, weird. we can't BE together but we care for each other a lot.
when it comes to actual sex or doing touchy feely stuff, i'm more of the tease and he's the doer. i tease him and taunt him with stuff (like i did today. i refused to tell him what i did and it drove him insane.). we both want it and i just sorta get him into the mood by teasing (blowpops are so fun. lol) and then when we're alone, he generally just comes up behind me and does whatever he can in the minute(s) we're alone together. (we work together. neither of us want to get caught and lose our jobs, so whatever happens between us has to happen fast. it sucks. a lot. but sometimes you just take what you can get.)
you've had sex w/ your b/f but he's never kissed you?
do you mean you always have to make the move and kiss him first or what?
anyways, i agree....a nice shave and/or trim is always a nice surprise and kind of lets them know what you are in the mood for
today was the first time i saw my guy since the 20th. this is like the longest we've been apart. we only see each other once a week, so ya know, it's a bit hard when that once a week thing can't happen. (note: by seeing each other i don't mean having sex. i mean just actually SEEING each other. we've only had sex once)
so i did a little surprise for him.
i shaved and trimmed down there and left like a strip of hair. i knew he would enjoy it because for whatever reason, i seem to be able to read his sexual ways very well and can pretty much tell what he's gonna like. he didn't mind the fact that i had never trimmed and actually enjoyed my hair down there. i just sorta did it as a surprise and in hopes to bribe him a little so he can really really try to get off thursday early so we can meet up (it's my birthday).
so when we got a moment alone, i showed him and he loved it. a lot. and while he was admiring the scenery he leaned in and kissed me. he has never kissed me before (hell, i've never been kissed period).
so, i think between the combination that we haven't seen each other in 3 weeks, that fact that we both missed each other a lot, and my little surprise for him got him a wee bit happy.
so, my advice, if you don't trim or shave down there, do so. he'll enjoy it.
I don't have any experience with this at all, but I have an idea that could be interesting. Seduce him by cuddling him and other such means... but tell him to try to resist you as long as possible. Once, he is no longer able to resist you all the expectation built up will make the experience even more intense for him.
I hope he then 'repays' you with some such idea of his own.