So, when me and my bf are hanging out in either of our basements (obviously not allowed in eachothers rooms) there is some fooling around, which I don't find to be wrong at all.
Were both upcoming seniors, and hes going to be 18 in a few months (meaning currently hotel isn't an option, although even if it was it would be hard to sneak that around)
So I think that hooking up and such is in a way stressful because we are both kinda worried of my or his parents walking in on us (we have maybe a 3-5 second window for when we are in view at my house, maybe 8-10 second one at his) and I think my mom knows we do stuff, but still I feel its inappropriate for her to see it. So in a nutshell what are some discrete ways to do stuff, not just sex. cause obviously that would be the hardest to pull off.
NOTE: for those of you who are going to say its rude to be hooking up right under our parents noses, please don't bother saying it. While I do very much see your point, I don't really have any other options I refuse to just hookup on a random gravel road or parking lot. And also don't say that I shouldn't be concerned with only sexual things, because I am not. We cuddle and just watch movies without having to do stuff, but obviously at our age and stage in our relationship its natural to explore each other. At least that is what I think.
Thank y'all!
If you think your Mum knows why not talk to her about it???
Are you using condoms etc ????
How old are you????
And hunny there is nothing wrong with Gravel roads or parking lots
even us old married couples do that at times :D
Gravel roads and parking lots are exciting. But like nutty chick said if you think your mom knows why not talk to her?
Also how long have you been in your relationship? Do your parents approve?
I ask because you mention you only have 8-10 second window, well because my parents give me my privacy to be alone with my boyfriend (not for sex but for watching movies and playing games ext.)
There are also back country roads.
There are also hiking trails with plenty of sheltered space just off these paths.
Even lakes and carwashes or an abandon (if that’s how you spell it) house out in the country just park where they cant see the car or even a state park the list keeps going
Just realize the limitations you have and enjoy what you can do even if it is limited. Yes it is hard to get really involved worrying about parents walking in, but it didn't totally stop me and my wife when we were dating. We just had to be careful and listen for footsteps or a door opening and hurrying and stop what we were doing.
Most of what we were able to do in this situation is just using our hands. I enjoyed feeling her breasts, undoing her bra, and having nice access that way, but she still had on her blouse, so she just had to kind of straighten her blouse. I had my hand down her pants and she would hurrying and button her pants up or just pull a pillow or blanket on her lap. If she was giving me a handjob, I would do the same thing if I didn't have time to zip up. Once I had removed her panties when she was wearing a dress and we had a great sessions. She forgot to pick them up and the next day her mom found them. My wife just told her they must have fallen out of the clothes basket when she had done her wash that day. It seemed to be a feasable explanation and nothing else was mentioned other than she should be careful to pick up after herself. I think the first time we were ever naked with each other we almost got caught which would have totally freaked out her mom. Her mom and dad had left and we thought they would be gone for hours. They showed up about an hour after they had left which was just about he time we had gotton naked and was just starting to explore each others body when we heard the back door open. We scrambled quick and tried to pick up all or clothes and run to seperate areas. I ran to the bathroom and she ran into her room and quickly got dressed. Didn't worry about her bra or panties and just got enough on as her mom walked in. I hurried and dressed and flushed the toilet and walk out to say hi. They did leave again soon after that but it ruined the moment. Still it was nice to have seen her in just her bra and panties and then totally naked since it had only been parts at a time and usually in the dark. This time it was during the day and she really looked hot. She had never been up close with a naked guy and was thrilled by it also and then getting to touch and feel each other that way. Just too bad we were interupted like that. We had a good laugh about it later especially since we weren't caught.
The drive in was always favorite spot when my hubby & I were dating (still is):p Depending on what your driving, you can get a lot accomplished. Just take a blanket with you. You should try riding around one day & look for good places in your area. The longer you fool around in your parents house, the more likely you are to get busted & that is NOT fun... trust me:(. Another thing that we did was when a relative would go on vacation we would make use of there drive way :Dlol, just make sure its a secluded driveway. Hope this helps:cool:
Be more careful about it, before exploring new things you must be sure that your parents are busy for something and may not to check out on you and your boyfriend, you can do naughty things without being caught by others if in your room you can do handjobs or even blowjob just remember to bring a pillow or blanket near you so if someone will appear you can easily hide what your doing. you can also wear clothes like a dress so your boyfriend can easily put is thing on yours. Having a thought of getting caught is really quite adventurous and make you want to do it even more.
Look, either 'get over' this irrational dislike of other locations (what did you think cars were for?) or resign yourself to petting only.
Sneaking around as you are is not impressing anyone.
You don't have any other options that don't involve getting out of the house, whats the big deal? Its more fun that way! Try going to the beach at night or if your not near a beach then maybe near some woods and just lay down a big blanket bring some food and have a picnic/alone time! Besides its the journey, not the destination!
ok so my boyfriend and i pretty much have the same issue the parents are always watching and neither of us have a car or license and even then my mom has told me that i am not allowed to be in the car alone with him at any time occasionaly we get a little time to mess around but i know we both are feeling frustrated and like we want to go all the way we have phone sex and we are open with each other about masturbation and stuff and usually when either of us is horny we tell each other and help the other out with a little stimulation or whatever but my parents are pretty much prudes and his are the same way so if anyone has any suggestions to help a little that would be greatly appreciated
How old are you and your bf?
ummmm 16 which i know is young but still......
Get your driver's license. You don't exactly have to stay in the car, ya know.
im supposed to have it already and i would be ok in car lol just have get one