My girlfriend can reach climax in two to three minutes after apropriate forplay, as long as she is in control. This is fine with me because five minutes of passionate sex is long for me LOL. In the past I'v frusterated other partners because when they would be climbing that mountian towards climax I was usually was there already. Anyway, I was wo:cool: :cool: ndering if there was a average time to climax for woman and if three to five minutes is acceptable. I realize that if it works for us then it's fine and my girlfriend never seems frusteraded. am I stuck in the past.
Wed, 09/05/2007 - 02:39
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Average time to climax
In general woman take much longer than men to climax & ultimately orgasm. Yes, it will vary with each woman and much has to do with the level of arousal. I would say 3-5 minutes is very fast for the majority.
The actual time will vary as stated previously, as well as the methods employed (climaxing through oral or vaginal stimulation) for myself I'd say it's about an a half hour and is dependent on; the man, my degree of arousal, and the mood. etc. All in all, I need a half hour of vaginal penetration.:eek:
If I preform oral on my girlfriend before we have sex (I usually do, 85% of the time) It takes her anywhere from 20 to 35 minutes to have an orgasm. During sex however, oral or not, if she's on top of me, she can have an orgasm within 30 seconds. She'll usually slow down for 3 or 4 minutes and have another. It kicks ass because even though I'm not doing that much, I feel like I've accomplished this nearly unachievable goal. After we have sex, I preform oral on her again, and she almost goes insane:D
There is no answer to your question. Individual women vary greatly from one time to another. We each have patterns, but they are "our" patterns and not any other woman's.
I vary from partner to partner; by time of month; by what else is going on in life.