Okay, My partner really wnats to "Finish" in my ass though I have tryed this before a couple times with him it is somewhat unconfortable, and I can never go for a long amount of time. Is there any certain positions that will be a lil more confortable, and is there any tips for you guys you can give me to maybe make it less painful...Because when he enters the first time..everytme I get this sharp pain and he has to come out for a second for me to rebuild up my nerve for him to start agian..Any tips would be greatly appriciated.. 
Wed, 07/30/2003 - 13:11
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Ass Play?
Sounds like you are willing to give this a try..so here are my tips.
1) as incredibly hard as it may be the key is to realx, relax, relax. It makes all the difference.
2) lots and lots and lots of lube , and thats in addtion to your comdom.
3) Make sure he is gentle , proably starting out first with a finger there possible 2 and "warm" it up before hand.
And as always I suggest that you make sure to have an open line of communication between you both before, during, and after.
Live life.
Good luck.