this will sound very stupid but i'm worried that i get aroused too easily. i've never had sex and have never put anything into my vagina before (not even a tampon) but when i masturbate i get aroused very easily. also, after a while it begins to sting, why is this? it has made me worry that it will sting ALOT when i have sex for the first time, and also that the pleasure will be too much if that's possible! please help! thanks xxx
Wed, 04/25/2007 - 22:31
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Aroused too quickly - is this right?
What part stings?
i'm not that great with the anatomy down there but it feels like it's my vagina, it's hard to explain but it feels almost like there's a really small bubble there or something.
Is it the area where on top your labia join? Or more near where the opening to the vagina is? When you masturbate, are you inserting a finger or just on the clitoris?
it feels more towards the opening of the vagina, and yeah it's just on my clitoris.
If it's happening when inserting a finger or two it could be due to part (or all) of the hymen is intact. If you are feeling a lump or a small knotted lump it's the clitoris. Try to avoid direct stimulation on the clitoris...massage around and touch the area directly very lightly. Another good idea is to use a mirror to see where the discomfort/burning is and then look it up on a diagram. Some women find the clitoris to be ultra sensitive and direct stimulation to be annoying or uncomfortable. Try a lighter less direct approach. Start learning about your body now through pin pointing areas on diagrams!
Good luck!