Same happens here...what I have found is if I take a hot bath before sex (or before I see him) it decreases the amount of fluid produced. I have the same w/kissing, as soon as he gets near me it begins so by the time we hit clothes off, lack of friction is a problem, as the time progresses (during sex) it's even more of an issue. So, what I have been doing is soaking in the tub for a while before he gets in from work. I found it decreases the fluid, and provides for a nice relaxing break through the day.

Some women produce very little and some produce large amounts. All of us tend to produce more in the middle of the month than near our periods. We each are what we are and learn to live with it. I see more patients complaining of being too dry than too wet.

yer i find i get very wet myself also! i dont really have a problem with, its just frustating sometimes tho, how anything will turn it on. liek u sed, a kiss, or a touch or my legs...its crazy. I get absolutley soaked.

YEs very wet. If he plays with my nipples!

The "too much" experience is a rare one. Yeah, when my fiance and I are kissing or doing anything that arouses me even the least, I drench my panties, but it's not something embarassing for me because it doesn't happen at inopportune times. The only thing I'm worried about will be seeing him for the first time in three months and walking around Parris Island like that. LOL.

I have experienced that problem and it is incredibly frustrating. Like yall said just a kiss will do it. Most of the time before all the clothes come off i go to the bathroom and dry myself off, kind of a mood changer.

OK so here's one man's point of view on this.
My GF gets nice & wet after a little foreplay. Sometimes to the point where it's running down her butt & the bed gets soaked. Playing with her ears & kissing her neck ussually gets her flowing and swollen down there. If we are out somewhere & I start playing with her hair & touching her ears she'll tell me "ya better stop it before I have to change my pannties!" LOL From a man's perspective I have to tell you it's a turn on for me and makes it much more comfortable for intercourse. Trying to work your penis into a dry vagina isn't much fun I assure you. I'd much rather deal with too much than dry. I hate haveing to fumble for the lube and lube seems to make it too slippy sometimes. The natural lube is the best for me. Plus I guess it makes it very apparent that I turn her on & that's always good for the ole male ego. Lets face it, you gals have an advantage in telling if the man is arroused. An errect penis is pretty obvious. I think you should just be happy the more he makes you gush & so should he. Just keep a couple hand towels handy.:D