I know DancingDoc2 will say this with more detail, but I'll go ahead and tell you short and sweet. Read each and every article in the Index. Your SO should read them as well.
[QUOTE=hagions;279056]Long relationship and needs a kick start.any tips to get things going.ie oral sex tips etc.[/QUOTE]
This does not give a lot of information as to what has been going on, or, not, what problem(s) you are experiencing, what attitudes may be involved, etc. Please clarify so that we can zero in on specifics.
[quote=shychick07]I know DancingDoc2 will say this with more detail, but I'll go ahead and tell you short and sweet. Read each and every article in the Index. Your SO should read them as well. [/quote]
...discuss what you have read and add the information to what each of you already knows. The Index, found at the top of the main screen, contains links to helpful informative insightful, as well as how-to articles that discuss the most common questions and concerns people ask about.
[quote=a-regular-joe]Watch porn,get a hotel room. Have sex different than normal(if rough try romantic, or romantic try rough). Just be more flirty then sex may follow[/quote]
X-rated videos are written and performed mainly for males. While their content may be OK for a healthy relationship, I would not recommend them for a relationship you are trying turn around.
I agree: make love different than normal. Try different positions {refer to the illustrated animated drawings on the site's Home Page.) If the two of you devote less than half an hour fooling around and making out, extend the time to at least this long--more within reason if time permits.
Please tell us more of what you want and why so that we can zero in and offer more concise information.
Sex is more often a symptom of a deeper problem rather than the problem itself. Consider the two of you seeking some counseling assistance. We women can often not be energized by technique alone.
Women are not 'push-button' creatures and in light of our responsibilities, we cannot afford to be. We deal in NUANCE and therefore it is NOT enough to just say "watch pronography" and/or "try different positions" because it doesn't deal with nuance.
I know DancingDoc2 will say this with more detail, but I'll go ahead and tell you short and sweet. Read each and every article in the Index. Your SO should read them as well.
have you tried roll playing
Watch porn,get a hotel room. Have sex different than normal(if rough try romantic, or romantic try rough). Just be more flirty then sex may follow
[QUOTE=hagions;279056]Long relationship and needs a kick start.any tips to get things going.ie oral sex tips etc.[/QUOTE]
This does not give a lot of information as to what has been going on, or, not, what problem(s) you are experiencing, what attitudes may be involved, etc. Please clarify so that we can zero in on specifics.
[quote=shychick07]I know DancingDoc2 will say this with more detail, but I'll go ahead and tell you short and sweet. Read each and every article in the Index. Your SO should read them as well. [/quote]
...discuss what you have read and add the information to what each of you already knows. The Index, found at the top of the main screen, contains links to helpful informative insightful, as well as how-to articles that discuss the most common questions and concerns people ask about.
[quote=a-regular-joe]Watch porn,get a hotel room. Have sex different than normal(if rough try romantic, or romantic try rough). Just be more flirty then sex may follow[/quote]
X-rated videos are written and performed mainly for males. While their content may be OK for a healthy relationship, I would not recommend them for a relationship you are trying turn around.
I agree: make love different than normal. Try different positions {refer to the illustrated animated drawings on the site's Home Page.) If the two of you devote less than half an hour fooling around and making out, extend the time to at least this long--more within reason if time permits.
Please tell us more of what you want and why so that we can zero in and offer more concise information.
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Sex is more often a symptom of a deeper problem rather than the problem itself. Consider the two of you seeking some counseling assistance. We women can often not be energized by technique alone.
I agree with brandye. Women are so much more difficult. Its much more mental for them.
"Difficult?" No. Poor choice of words.
Women are not 'push-button' creatures and in light of our responsibilities, we cannot afford to be. We deal in NUANCE and therefore it is NOT enough to just say "watch pronography" and/or "try different positions" because it doesn't deal with nuance.
Thanks for the replys
have you tried anal sex? Also 5HTP is good for improving mood and sexual chemistry