I have known this guy for 12 years. About 9 months into the relationship we slept together. He was my fiirst and my only. He was married before and his ex got pregnant by another man. We have remained friends over the years. Well. to make a long story short. Nothing sexual has happened between us in about 11 years, that is until about a week ago. He asked me if I could give him a backrub. Usually he would purposely fall asleep so that nothing else would happen because he knows that I want more that friendship with him. Well last week when I was giving him a backrub he rolls over so that I can rub his chest. Normally I would have stopped there because I am inexperienced and don't know what to do but this time I let my hand continue down and started to rub his "manhood". He didn't try to stop me. Any way it ended up with me giving him a blow job. He told me afterwards that his last one was done by his ex-wife so that had to have been over 20 years ago. This guy is not the kind to sleep around. But the problem I am having now is when I go over to his house he acts like he doesn't want me around. Was I so naive to think that he cared about me? Or that he wanted a relationship with me? I don't understand why men treat women like this after sleeping with them.Any ideas whats going on with him?