A few weeks ago i was at my boyfriends house and we were fooling around on the couch. i was giving him a hand job and he orgasmed pretty quickly BUT he didnt cum and his erection was as hard as ever.
he said that'd never happend to him before. and it was brilliant for me because there was no mess to clean up and we were able to go upstairs and have sex instead of his penis going soft and sensitive like usual.
could anyone tell me what i did differently? :confused: cos i'd love to be able to do it everytime :D
thanks
xxx
Likely nothing you did. The situation is usually "retrograde ejaculation." The prostate gland is the traffic control for what goes where. Usually, the gland has the urethra open from the bladder until sexual arousal when that is closed and the prostate, and other storage facilities, opens the urethra to the semen. In some cases, this goes awry and the semen is directed back into the bladder instead of out the urethra. There could be other causes but they are very uncommon.
Some men strive to achieve this regularly and think this preserves their energy and manhood. This is found among certain religious groups on the Indian Sub-Continent.
If, however, this happens repeatedly for your b/f, he should see a urologist.
its only happend the once.
but are you saying it could cause him damage? :confused: maybe i was leaning on him a weird way or something. but obv i wouldnt want it to happen again if its harmful.
but thanks for the info. i'll consult the master google now i have an idea what i might be.
xxx
It might be that his reproductive system just hasn't produced sperm yet and i don't know so if im wrong sorry-
[QUOTE=Brandye;166201]Likely nothing you did. The situation is usually "retrograde ejaculation." The prostate gland is the traffic control for what goes where. Usually, the gland has the urethra open from the bladder until sexual arousal when that is closed and the prostate, and other storage facilities, opens the urethra to the semen. In some cases, this goes awry and the semen is directed back into the bladder instead of out the urethra. There could be other causes but they are very uncommon.[/QUOTE]
If that was the case he would have had a typical orgasm and gone soft, wouldn't he? At least that's my understanding of retrograde ejaculation; it doesn't change the dynamic of the orgasm. I've experienced a similiar feeling to what she's describing (also with a hand job), and for me it was the beginning of an orgasm that didn't complete. It was very pleasurable, but I didn't cum and it left me horny and able to continue sex.
I couldn't begin to tell her how to repeat it, though. I've only had it happen to me a few times, and I think it's just luck. ;)