Hi there!
I am after some help, i have problems with having sex. My pertner does not mind so much because i can do some cool stuff with my tongue an she ENJOYs that but it really is annoying me.
She can use her hand on me for hours, or give me oral for ages but as soon as we hit sex.... even if i think of the halocaust while im shagging, i still cant help but squirt coz it feels too good.
All techniques are a total waste of time, and although i have never been confident, recently i have had alot of attention from girls, the more stunning they are, the less i know i can do with them.
I dont want sex to be a thrust thrust..... excuse me... i need to take it out.... ok thrust thrust.... yep close.... because basically im almost trying not to have sex, i almost dont want it to happen because i feel so crap and unmanly about it. Id love to just go for 20 mins!!
So in my world, sex is the most important thing, there is no point in me living and going to work unless i can squrt, so im happy to severly degrade my health and even say im suicidal if that obtains me happy pills.
There is clearly different strengths of anti-D's, if i am looking to take them for a couple of months to treat premature ejaculation, does anyone know the weakest yet still effective drug for this purpose?
Thanks :D
Did you try the squeeze technique Dancindoc recommends? If no avail, go to a doctor! You cannot just start antidepressants if you have no real psych issues! They are problematic in their own sense and require continuous monitoring and they also have other bad side effects such as killing your libido! What if you control the quick issue but KILL your sex drive? That would suck!
I'm not a doctor, but I don't imagine the people on this board who are in the medical profession would disagree - there is no way to tell how an antidepressant will affect you. Some people have problems with them delaying orgasm (I did), others don't. You would need to talk to a doctor or therapist to find out what to try. Some physicians use a very low dose of the SSRI class of drugs (prozac, zoloft, a ton of others) but I don't know how widespread this therapy is being used.
[quote=DVDBear;179654]I'm not a doctor, but I don't imagine the people on this board who are in the medical profession would disagree - there is no way to tell how an antidepressant will affect you. Some people have problems with them delaying orgasm (I did), others don't. You would need to talk to a doctor or therapist to find out what to try. Some physicians use a very low dose of the SSRI class of drugs (prozac, zoloft, a ton of others) but I don't know how widespread this therapy is being used.[/quote]
You are very correct DVD! I used Zyban (Wellbutirin SR) to quit smoking and had horrible side effects. I was switched to Zoloft 12.5 mg; talk about having no desire for sex! I was not certain which was worse, smoking or the meds! Patch worked though. My point is to the OP don't screw with this stuff unless you tell the doctor the real issue and discuss the therapies you may want to try. Don't make up excuses to obtain the meds!
> All techniques are a total waste of time
Are you sure you've read about all? The reason I ask is that there is a Sticky post that describes an exercise that works in all but the most difficult of men like those who are hard headed.
Sera, the Squeeze technique is Brandye's first line of control, she gets the credit on this one. I go along with her recommendation as it pertains to the here and now immediacy when you need something right now to stave off a climax. Either way, it works as does the exercise I recommend.
Ahhh...I stand corrected! Thanks Doc :)
I was worried about this too. P.E. I mean it's why I first started coming to this forum lol. ANYWAY I'm not sure how YOU work specifically but if u know your gonna get laid in a couple minutes and have some time. Masturbate before she comes over or gets home or whatever. Or if yer lucky like some of us and can get hard again minutes after an orgasm have her go down on you till u climax then play with her till u can get in the mood again. You will last longer during sex.
I was worried because I hadnt had sex in MONTHS and had been masturbating a lot in the meantime but it turns out that probably helped me mentally seeing all the porn and all. Cos when I initially penetrated the girl I'd been seeing it was REALLY REALLY awesome but when it wasnt like how i invisioned it in porn I didn't pop immediately.
LoL hope this helps it probably doesnt :P