I would really like to give my husband a treat by inviting another woman to give my husband a blow job but nothing more. Of course I would sit in, be in the corner or laying in the bed next to him allowing him to enjoy the pleasure but when it's time for penetration or the actual act of sex I would only like him to penetrate me and yes of course I would pleasure the other woman. How should I plan this and do you think it's a bad idea?
Mon, 01/05/2009 - 04:03
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Another Woman Giving him A Blow Job?
Bad idea--YES!
Asked and answered elsewhere, today
Well, if you want a bi-femme to come over - you're going to have to offer her something she cannot get with anyone else. Giving your hubby oral and then messing with you may not be on her agenda, or may be seen as 'insufficient'.
If she's not bisexual - then sorry but the answer you will receive is a resounding NO.
It is up to you - but either you play or you don't - half measures rarely work out.
It's a nice thought, but it seems a little like a tease. If you're going to have a threesome, have a threesome. My wife and I discussed this topic and we both agreed that no matter what sex the third party would be, we see the final result as being a bad thing.
Well thank you everyone for the advice....Greatly appreciated.
The thing is- I have done threesomes - many of them in various configurations - and the best ones are where everyone gets what they came for and were friends to begin with. If your attitude is not "giving" then the threesome will turn out horribly!
To Molovato08
No problem as long you have a good understanding. I allow my wife to blowjob others if she so desires and as we are also into threesomes and anal, it's somewhat different but because of the way we planned it, it's enjoyable.
You right, evilevilkitten, We also indulge in theesomes, and so far one foursome (3m 1f) but before we start anything fancy we make sure who's going to do what and credible "swingers" are involved. With the 4some the whole thing was my GF's idea as from an innocent sex only, moving on to oral sex and then insisting on anal (she had herself well prepared and stretched). Her idea of taking on 3m @ 1 time was because "I got three openings...i want them all used at once." LOL
Group sex is fun -with the right people and the right attitude.
Man, I love this board. It's such a satisfying breath of fresh air to have some sex positive folks from time to time.
Cheers folks!
If you are uncomfortable with whom you might pick for your s/o, you could utilize the services of an SP. You won't have to worry about him starting to like a friend of yours and perhaps get you out of any guilt thing. An SP is there for a specific reason and they do it very well.
I like this idea, but I don't know how to do it too.
You find and hang out with your local Lifestyle/Swinger group. Easy peasy.
i say its not a bad idea at all we have done it that way my bf and i and one of my friends she wanted to know how to give a man a good blow job and i was jealous when he wanted to penatrate her i felt like he was enjoying her more than he does me when i let him fuck her the first time and it didnt last long but she still didnt think she was good enough for her bf to give him a blow job so i let her suk my man off all she wanted but she would have to use a dildo we own if she wanted anything up her pussy or ass but thats how we did it and it worked great
My current partner and I had discussed the topic of threesomes, but we had both agreed that someone owuld feel left outin a threesum, and someone would most definitely get hurt (we're quite jelous of each other, even though we're just sleeping together).
One night, I was asking him about some of his previous escapades, and he mentioned a foursome in which himself and a friend had sex with two women side by side. This gave us the idea to have a foursome in which each woman had her own partner, and any penetration or oral would be done (or given to)their male partner, while also giving us ladies the chance to play with each other (neither one of us is bothered by the idea of myself and another woman being intimate). We have yet to try this out, but believe that it'll be much more relaxed if we don't have the added stress of having to watch each other have sex with another partner.