Ehm, I ejaculate pretty fast during masturbation. (within 5 min).
Does that mean I will also last that long during intercourse?
I can get multiple orgasms btw
Tue, 05/25/2004 - 21:04
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People who are circumcized are more senstitive! And, if you wank right before sex you can go longer than you ever thought possible.
Im not really worrying tho.
I just don't want to have anything to worry about.
But you are right, I'd have to wait.
But two months is sooo long
well you've gotten some great advice.
you will just have to wait and see.
who knows, you might not have trouble lasting long enough. you are already worrying about something that hasn't happened yet. you are going to end up freaking yourself out and when the time comes it will be all you can think about and sure enough, you won't last long.
so just relax and try not to worry unless you have something to worry about.
good luck.
I know that helps, but still i want to be able to do something about how long i can I last
one other word.
FOREPLAY
If you can spend more time arousing her before intercourse it may help.
I just want to know how I could last longer for my g/f this summer
The real key to orgasm control is DECIDING to stop and slow down BEFORE you cum. Some call it "edging" ....where just when u feel your orgasm approaching..u let go of your cock and let the feeling subside...then start up again..then stop, and go on and on....it's tough when you know how great it feels to cum..but it's good to practice STOPPING so u can make the feeling last longer and longer!
I'm 42 and can cum in a minute or 2 if i'm doing a quickie/stress relief cumshot...or can go literally an hour or more if i just use the system i described above! IT WORKS!
well whatever or how many muscles are contracting i don't think it would make a difference.
Whenever i feel the muscle during kegel exercises it seems like the same muscle but my anal muscles contract also
its the same one you contract when you gotta pee.
practicing the stop and go thing while masturbating can help.
by practice i just meant after you have sex awhile.
well don't go into thinking you'll be a marathon man first thing. that takes lots of practice being able to control and prolong orgasms.
just spend lots of time pleasuring her. and like i said, you be ready to go for a 2cd and 3rd round in no time. lol
Yeah i know but what kind of practice? I am trying kegel exercises. Im trying to hold it back when I get an orgasm. I try the stop,go,stop thing.
And about the kegel exercises, i've been doing them for a while but it just doesn't seem like I can divide the anal muscles and the PC muscle. They both retract at the same time.
How can I feel if im retracting the right muscle?
I know, I would just hate having an orgasm too soon cause i want her to get off as well.
Don't remind me...Just hearing her voice can turn me on lol
yeah but guys who have been circumsized are still sensitive.
i guess you'll just have to wait and see. i mean there are a lot more stimulating things around when you are w/ someone than when its just you by yourself.
i mean her touching you and you seeing her naked will definetly get you turned on LOL.
plus masturbation is like a one track thing. you do it to get off. sex its about mutual feelings and getting your partner off as well. so you will have lots of things on your mind.
Well. The foreskin was cut away and that is supposed to take away the sensitivity over time too. And since it was cut since i was 9, I shouldn't be too sensitive. It just seems weird that I ejaculate fast...Maybe it is just because of my method lol
well you could last less or longer it all depends.
the sensations during sex and masturbation are totally different, for me at least.
i can imagine a vagina will feel a WHOLE lot better than just a hand...lol.
but since you are young, your recovery time shouldn't be but a few minutes lol.
also, i know you/she doesn't want to wear a condom but they can help you last longer by reducing sensitivity.