I've read loads of posts, tried all the techniques more times than i care to remember... but I still come quick!!!
Its been happening for years! Its got to a stage where Im seriously considering a circumcision to desensitise my penis.
Is there a chance something is medically wrong? I highly doubt it as Im pretty healthy, exercise when i can and dont have a bad diet.
I know anxiety and all that can have an effect but thats not even the case - I left that stage a long time ago. Sometimes I can come within a matter of seconds!!!
Im 23, far too young to be this pissed off when it comes to sex!!!
Hopefully you'll be able to help me out - and please rest assured I've been through pretty much any of the previous posts that you might suggest.
Many thanks
Curious Al
> I've read loads of posts, tried all the techniques more times than i care to remember... but I still come quick!!!
What techniques have you tried?
> Its got to a stage where Im seriously considering a circumcision to desensitise my penis.
That will, although not immediately. It will take months for the desensitization to take place.
There are other benefits to removing the Foreskin, have you read about these reasons?
Do you, have you, masturbated at least half an hour before engaging in intercourse?
If so, what was the result?
How many times to you masturbate before having intercourse?
Have you read this article:
Squeeze & Training Exercise for Controlling Premature Ejaculation
If yes, what were the results?
I look forward to learning acquiring more information.
-doc
Um... this is a bad thing, how?
As a female, I would much rather my guy cum fast so we can play some more and have him cum many times per session, than be a so called "laster" and have to jackhammer my poor kitty for 3 hours straight just to get off
Well, pai, the endorphins released in the male brain during orgasm tend to make him want to fall asleep.
Al, there is an entire movement called "ladies first" that emphasizes the woman's more complex need for stimulation and advocating that she be brought off first. Then your lasting long does not matter as much. You can build into your foreplay her doing you by hand early in the process usually leading to your lasting a bit longer. And, a good thing about PE is that there is more where that came from - just keep going.
The squeeze technique done by a cooperative partner can be very helpful.
Hi - thank you for your replies. Apologies for the very delayed response, I think i was caught in a moment of frustration and forgot the post!
In reply to a few of your comments:
[QUOTE]What techniques have you tried?[/QUOTE]
Grunt/squeeze - the others mentioned in your fabled post!
[QUOTE]Do you, have you, masturbated at least half an hour before engaging in intercourse?
If so, what was the result?[/QUOTE]
Yes - I have. Mixed results, sometimes I get a few extra fleeting moments longer. Although i find that sometimes it can take the fuel out of the fire if you masterbate too soon before.
In terms of the circumsition - Im going to leave that one well alone! I've read alot of the posts about the benefits but I dont think I could justify the unecessary op when everythings fine down there and i keep myself clean.
Pai: It not a case of one extreme to another. cum extra fast or cum after hours. It would seem that "the norm" is about 10/15mins, and im fully aware "the norm" is a bit of a taboo word here. But when it coems to sex i would rather be hitting that region than anyother.
Brandeye: Thanks, helpful! I guess I do get myself in a worry over ladies first. But [QUOTE] And, a good thing about PE is that there is more where that came from - just keep going.[/QUOTE]
It would seem, after careful consideration ;), that my issue mostly revolves around recovery. I hope i havent jumped the gun and asked when there are posts all over the forum. But how can I improve my recovery? I dont seem to have one! I send the soldiers to war and they never come back - excuse the terrible analogy! Does diet, lifestyle, exercise have much to do with it? I assume it does.
Many thanks
Curious Al
penis desensitizers usually do the job for me.. i tried multiple jelqing exercises cuz they did say they seem to effectively desensitize your head. The only thing is you have to use [url=http://www.x4labs.com][COLOR=#000000]penis stretchers[/COLOR] to get permanent results.. at least thats what i tried and it seemed to work.. because i wore the penis stretcher every day it managed to somehow soften the skin on my penis making it a lot less sensitive.
Al please disregard the above poster. He is for lack of a better word. A moron. Penis stretchers are very dangerous and the risks greatly outweigh the benefits. You want to lose your ability to gain an erection?
Recovery is dependent on overall healther and also your natural "luck" I can got 8 or 9 times a day. My friend says he can go 1 time a day, or 2 times a day if he has a morning session and a night session. He also get about 20 minutes out of his erection if he's trying hard and wearing a condom.
Speaking of which are you wearing a condom during this?