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I have been hitting a lot of rough spots as of late...
Anyways, a few weeks ago or so my gf gave me my first blow job, it was really good and she swallowed and everything so that was all nice. Then after about a week or two (I'm bad with dates) she stopped "going all the way" and just left me on the edge. After posting about that it was decided that she was probably tired.
Now the new problem: she basically stopped all together. I say basically because she has given me like 30 seconds and then just stopped, which is kind of weird but oh well.
I assume she just doesn't like the taste, because she can't get tired after only 30 seconds, that wold be strange. So now I ask: is there any way to improve the taste? I know that diet affects everything, I hear fruit and cranberry juice is good. So would an orange and a glass of cranberry juice everyday do anything?
(Note: I love my gf and definately don't expect her to give me blow jobs a lot or anything, there was just a really drastic drop in how many times she was doing it)
...thanx for any help.
-A guy
As I see the matter, there are three issues at play here. They are:
1. Swallowing--or not
2. Taste
3. Leaving you hanging
* Swallowing or not is a woman's decission by which the man will have to abide.
* Taste can be improved. Look around the site and you will find that we have discussed the matter at length more than once.
* Leaving you hanging used to be called "Cock Teasing". It is when a girl stimulates your penis and brings you to the brink of an orgasm and then stops and you are left all excited, agitated, exasperated, and with a full head of steam that isn't going to be released. Blue Balls is often the result, a condition you can take care of when you get back home by either taking a cold shower or masturbating.
There should be no expectation on your part that she should let you ejaculate in her mouth and/or that she should swallow. If she has decided not to, then she should stop the oral just before you are ready and finish you off by hand. I would have a chat with her about adopting this method if it suits her. Unless there is some other obstacle, there should be no reason for her to stop stimulating you orally or to limit the time to such a short duration.
ok ye I'm young and nieve but isn't their pills you can take for the taste of your cum (if thats what your worried about)
Or if it's the actual penis then maybe flavoured condoms? I mean I've seen stawberry to even wine flavour condoms, maybe try out some of them? she could see it as a big flavoured lolly :p
Hope I helped
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