hey everyone, long time no see, hows things?
this may not be the right topic to post in, but im just wondering...
i have a crush on this cool girl, and recently we've been playing around in the bedroom. ive been drunk most of the time when we've done it so its only normal that i cant get an erection
but last night i was completely sober and i couldnt get anything... i have no problems normally, and have morning wood etc etc etc, i just couldnt get it up, it was so embarrassing!
i think its because i like her lots and i dont want her to think any less of me or something like that, so its like stress or pressure or something - and the more i think of it the worse it gets, so im not sure what to do!!
so now, if something happens again this will be on my mind and i know i wont be able to get it up cause ill be worrying too much about it and not relaxing enough. also this girl is much older than me so shes had more experiences, so i just dont wanna be the worst!
... can any of you post your experiences or advice? im at a loss, lol :o
thanks :) :)
And each time it happens increases the pressure and makes it more likely that it will happen again. Time to have a talk with her and explain that this bothers you. With any cooperation from her, you will be on your way again with no fears.
thanks for quick response :)
i dont think we'll ever have a relationship because shes much older than me :( so isn't talk like that kinda relationshipy? may freak her out?
and what would i say anyway, would it really make it better? im sure she likes real men not nervous people who think too much :p i have no clue! and if she told anyone else that'd be embarrassing lol :rolleyes: