A couple of weeks ago, my wife allowed me to act out my fantasy (believe me, I've tried to find a nicer way to say this, but can't find the words). What it amounts to is she let me face **** her, talk as dirty as I wanted and then cum on her face. It was an incredible experience for me and she didn't seem to mind, but I still wasn't sure how she felt about it. After all, it was totally selfish of me and if she didn't like it I'd be happy to have had the experience and wouldn't ask again. So the next day it came up & I asked her how she felt. She said it was actually fun because I was really nervous when I asked and she knew how excited I was. Then she said licking me while I had one of the most intense orgasms of my life was a total turn on. And then two things I didn't expect: 1) She said she loved me even more after last night and she would do anything to please me. and 2) I fell head over heels in love again.
I never thought that acting out such a kinky fantasy would have brought us closer together on an emotional level but I've never felt more honored to be her husband. Also, as an afterthought, it occured to me that what we did was dom/sub. Have we stumbled onto something?
In my humble (and envious) opinion, you may just have opened the door to a new realm in your sexual exploration. Very often the opening of ones sexual experimentation requires a trigger which could be very difficult (sometimes virtually impossible) to find.
Whether the new experience could be seen as sub/dom is possible open to interpretation as it may seem a very mild form for some, but then for others unspeakably OTT. What I would (if I where in the same situation) look to explore from here is if the acts as described above have helped your wife realise that she to can request, and have some of her deepest fantasies experienced....this is an area of my relationship which has/does not currently occur (although given the opportunity I would do almost anything to help my wife live out some deep seated fantasies).
Good luck with the exploration of your minds!!
Wow it is amassing what happens when we open up to the one we love
Thank you for sharing your story with us
Its important that you share things together. Willingly. And even better when you both discover new things from it.
Dont go too OTT too fast with this newly found sub/dom thing. But talk to her and see how she feels.