Hi all.
I'm new-ish to the boards and love all the advice.
I've searched for something similar to my question but didn't find anything, so I apologize if this has been discussed before.
Anyway, last night my girlfriend and I had sex for the first time in just under 4 months. (due to work and school and stuff) It was going great with foreplay and oral and everything, but when we were ready for penitration she said it hurt really bad and I pulled out.
We rested for a while and she decided she wanted to give it another go. This time no problem. We finished up and it was great.
Flash forward to this afternoon and she calls me and tells me that she was super sore this morning and was bleeding. She didn't say if it was a lot or a little and couldn't really dealve into detail. (her being at work and all)
This has never happened before and we've been having sex in the past. Just not recently. And we didn't do anything new. She suspects she may have torn something. Is it possible that since we haven't done it in awhile that her body may not have been used to it. Or is there anything else I'm not thinking of.
Thanks in advance and sorry if this is kind of rambling. I'm just worried about her.
Could be the onset of her period or the soreness and some mild bleeding due to "lack of use".
I'm hoping it's only due to lack of use. I guess her period ended a week or so ago, so I'm thinking it may not be that.
[quote=aka_Ryan;218153]I'm hoping it's only due to lack of use. I guess her period ended a week or so ago, so I'm thinking it may not be that.[/quote] Lack of regular sex tends to make tissue more delicate and tender. Seems to work better and not sore with regular usage. In the past same, slight bleeding and walking sort of funny, puffiness. Goes down in a day or so.
i doubt you tore anything because the vagina is made for a baby to pop out and that's 10cm, but i would have her go and get it checked out if it happens again or the bleeding and pain continues