My girlfriend and I have a great relationship. We have tons of sex and both of us are open to anything. I enjoy anal sex and she wants to do it, but we cannot make it happen. Her anus is extremely tight and it hurts her. We have tried lots of lube, we have tried using a finger and nothing seems to work. Is it possible that some women just are not able to do it?
I have had anal sex in past relationships and it has always been easy. A little lube or saliva was all that was needed.
Just wondering if anyone has had a similar exprience.
She has to relax. Does a finger work? What position are you starting in?
[QUOTE=sera300;170710]She has to relax. Does a finger work? What position are you starting in?[/QUOTE]
Even a finger hurts, it's incredibly tight. We have tried it on her back and on her knees. She keeps saying that she really wants to be able to do it. I would never pressure her.
If she is old enough tell her to drink a glass of wine. Have her stay on her belly, flat and try stretching it out a bit. Flat on your belly makes it more comfortable and creates less discomfort and pressure. Also, is she really excited when you try? How about inserting a finger while you are giving her oral?
[QUOTE=sera300;170715]If she is old enough tell her to drink a glass of wine. Have her stay on her belly, flat and try stretching it out a bit. Flat on your belly makes it more comfortable and creates less discomfort and pressure. Also, is she really excited when you try? How about inserting a finger while you are giving her oral?[/QUOTE]
A glass of wine? More like a bottle of Jim Beam lol
Tell her to try lying on her side with her legs drawn a lil' closer to her stomach. That's how I started out. Plus this same question was posted on here a couple of weeks ago. It had a lot more ideas on there as well.:)
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