I've heard some things about anonymous motels. Here's our issue.

Both me and her are 18, and we live with our parents. Our parents know of our relationship, know we're having sex, and stuff. But having sex at our homes is not an option, I share a bedroom with my younger brother, and her with an older sister. Her older sister works from the house in her room, and well, my younger brother is much too young to be told "we're having private time now" and not have him run screaming in my room.

This causes a lot of difficulty for us.

We've been having sex in various semi-public places (at least, places where people might walk in on us) such as cars, off trail, and many more. But it usually means having to deal with many issues. We want to be able to just let go and have fun for hours for a change.

We can afford to occassionaly go to a cheap motel, but anonymousity is a concern. I've never tried to go to a motel or hotel or anything on my own, so I don't know how it works. One of my concerns is that we are both deaf, and I don't want them calling our houses to confirm reservations, about a problem, etc.

If possible, we'd like to pay by cash, maybe give our names or license or something, no questions asked. I don't want any risk of them calling our house due to many family stuff. My parents are control freaks. They'll use any excuse to make things harder on me. They are great parents and I love them, but I'd like to have some privacy of my own and not have them part of every little thing I do. My deafness makes them treat me like I'm a idiot, to sum it up bluntly.

How are hotel/motel rentals done? How can I do it anonymously? Do they call people? Do they let you pay by cash up front? Do you need to make reservations? (We're not in a tourist area, the hotels/motels around here hardly ever have no vacancy) Knowing the process that is undertaken would help me be aware of any issues that may come up in order to make communication easier, rather than fumbling around in confusion.

Thanks. And for what it's wroth, BrandyE, your posts have always been very helpful ever since we've started reading here a long while ago even if we've never posted. This is the first time I've had something I couldn't find an answer for using search engines or google, so unless I missed it somehow, thanks for the help everyone.