ok so my wife wants to buy a strap on and have anal intercourse on me. i've thought about it and i have come up with that i am seriously considering it since she lets me have anal sex with her. of course i have some hesitation, because ive never done anything like that. i do ocasionally let her play a lil while we havin sex, generally after we have had a few drinks.
ive heard that prostate stimulation can cause a man to have a real intense orgasm, but i only hear about fingers being used.
so my questions are 1. would a strap on perform just as well as fingers? and 2. is there any man out there that has let their wives or girlfriends try this on them, was it good, bad?
thanks for any suggestions/comments/help on this.
sorry i posted this here, i didnt know what catergory it fit best.
My wife and I do the "role reversal" thing from time to time. It's fantastic. Fingers do not give you the same effect though.
I use a tapering vibrator, general all purpose multi-speed variety, when I do anal on a man because few strap-ons do anything for me and I have greater control over the level of prostate stimulation. I couple that with fellatio or intercourse to really get him involved. It makes a great treat for him.
YES, it does make his orgasm more intense -blasts him past Jupiter and is similar to the intense orgasms that women get from G-Spot and fornix stimulation.
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so my questions are 1. would a strap on perform just as well as fingers? and 2. is there any man out there that has let their wives or girlfriends try this on them, was it good, bad?
thanks for any suggestions/comments/help on this.
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Here is a short tutorial I typed up a while back. It's how *I* learned..
The key to this is to take your time and go slow. You learn how to control your butt and schincter muscles. You learn how to RELAX THEM and you get used to the feeling of it all.
Anal play for beginners
Disclaimer: I am NOT a doctor and I do NOT play one on TV. This is the way *I* learned how to discover anal play. As usual care needs to be practiced. GO VERY SLOWLY.
First start off with a TRIMMED index finger. You may even want to put on a latex glove first to help make it even smoother. Use KY or the drug store brand of KY and lube the finger well. Place it VERY GENTLY near the anus and lightly circle the hole with the finger. DON'T INSERT YET. Just circle it for a few minutes. After a few minutes without insert, just put the finger over the anus and gently press a bit without entering. Just apply a bit of pressure.
Do this over and over a few times and after a few minutes SLOWLY begin to insert JUST THE FINGER *TIP* in about a quarter of an inch then take it out. Do this a few times then go a LITTLE further in. Repeat this until you have you whole finger in. DO NOT FORCE IT, IF HE OR SHE OR YOU SAYS STOP, STOP!
Within a week or so of trying this the person should be fairly used to the finger and inserting and pumping it in and out should become easy. Also try moving the finger around while inserted, back & forth,etc. Orgasms ARE VERY VERY INTENSE when you leave your finger or butt plug or dildo in.
Soon you will want to try something slightly bigger than your finger. Try your middle finger or graduate to a SMALL butt plug. Same rules apply to the new toy as did with the finger. Start off using the finger as usual then after getting loose begin with the plug.
Plugs have flared bottoms to prevent them from going all the way in. If you graduate to dildos later get ones with a flared base or ones that have the balls at the bottom. This prevents them from slipping all the way in. You don't need a trip to the ER to retrieve it, that would SUCK!
After a while you will become very used to anal play and you won't need much time to prep for your session. You'll loosen up very quickly after you learn how to relax your anal muscles. It takes me less than 5 minutes to go from start to riding a 8 inch silicon dildo like a bucking bronco!
GITTYUP LITTLE DOGGIE!
The key to learning anal play/sex is to TAKE YOUR TIME.
I have tried a dildo in my ass while jacking off and its great, the cum shot seems to blow everywhere, I'd like to have a guy screw me in the ass while jacking me off, that would be hot, but I've never had that.
I have and it's great! Anal sex is my favorite and often use a plug or dildo when I JO.
[quote=byobob;230984]I have tried a dildo in my ass while jacking off and its great, the cum shot seems to blow everywhere, I'd like to have a guy screw me in the ass while jacking me off, that would be hot, but I've never had that.[/quote]
If you do such...be certain to use condoms...health comes first.