Anal sex..
Had a hysterectomy 5 week’s ago and it is getting a bit too hard. Must add that I have still some vaginal complication like a discharge but went to see my doctor and he took a swab to be tested . My doctor advised me not to have sex and he assumes that I meant vaginally. Wanted to try anal with my husband , do you think it would be safe to do so, since I have some vaginal complications.
Thank for your help
Katze
NO, no and NO!
You are having some problem with infection in the area. The bowels are full of infectious agents - bacteria. The two openings are less that two centimeters apart and the pudenda is always damp and warm. There is no way to have anal sex without spreading enterobactria all over yourself.
Give him a blow job.
Despite the expected anxiety, i thingk you musth ask your doctor if anal sex is a safe alternative to vaginal sex (until you are fully healed).
I am NOT a Doctor, but my gut tells me if you do it correctly, (douche before engaging in anal sex, plenty of lubricant, etc) then i would think it would be ok.
Now, clearly there are some hygene issue you must face with anal sex, and you don't want any fluids from anal sex to get near your vagina or any wounds, but if done in the proper position, it may just be a good alternative for you and your husband.
But, again, it's bets to check with him/her. TRUST ME, they have heard it all, so you're not going to shock your Doctor by asking. He/she will probably get GLAD u asked before proceeding.
Until then, you might want to focus on masturbation and oral sex to get u thru!
I'd vote "no," but it really is a medical question.