heya. i have a bit of a problem.. not to sure if any1can help me but here it goes...
my bf LOVES anal sex, and i dont mind it, but its not my favorite. last year round september i think i had a minor anal fissure. i couldn't go toilet and when i tried (pushed) the inside of my ass came out and went bk in when i stop pushing. which was very scary!!!! and gross!!. so i havn't had anal ever since.. now things are returning to normal but when i do go toilet if i push the inside still comes out a little but not alot.. its an improvement from last year! will it ever ever go bk to normal?
i do want to have anal again. do u think its a good idea...? tbh i think we went about it all wrong. i didn;t exactly give myself time to expand, if i put it that way.. he was able to put all of him in on my first go, and have a good ****!:confused: it was yes a little painful, but i ignored it. im silly i no! it was my fault rele, he's a perfect lover and does everything i say, and would never hurt me.
but i do want to have it again, and this time we'd take it slow and do everything right.. but i jst dont no wheather it would be safe for me... wheather it would make me worse..
just need some advice really.. techniques, positions for less stress on the ass, ways to make me "bigger",
its so gross to talk about, but any info would b a great help
you may have a medical issue totally not related to anal sex. My daughter had something similar to this (she was 2 when she had it, so watch the comments). When she went to the bathroom, something would pop out. It was a pollip (sp). She saw a rectal doctor, he immediately identified it, removed it, and she has no problems now. It was not actually her rectum that was popping out, it was the pollip. Go to the doctor and get checked out. It may be able to be fixed in a simple procedure and you will be back to enjoying anal in no time.
thanks =) i should see sum1 medical just to be sure. it couldn't hurt. at least there could be a light at the end of the tunnel tehehe *excuse the pun*.
I am confused. Did you see a doctor when your problem happened?
Tell us how this ends but it sounds kinda weird to me.
1. SEE A PROCTOLOGIST. Ask him/her these questions.
2. This sounds like rectal prolapse, not polyps.
3. Painful anal sex can lead to complications such as this.
4. If it doesn't feel good for you, then don't do it.
no never seen a doc about it. it was never painful or anything. jst a lil gross to see it pushin out my ass lol. it still does it but very minor. jst a lil iritating it still does it at all. i read around, ppl are saying anal shouldn't be painful... me and my bf talked to each other thru out our first time doing anal.. and he hardly had the tip of his dick in me and it was hurting... mayb im jst not cut out for it. too analy tight? is that possible..
i want to have anal again.. mostly for him. but i dont mind it to, i love the idea of it, its dirty and hot. but the pain is high even b4 i had these bum problems lol.
still gonna see doc tho... see wat the problem is... whatever it could be... is it all curable ... will i be able to have anal again?
WTH?? I take a week off and this place goes to hell in a hand basket??:eek:
[QUOTE=plugmeinbaby;208753]no never seen a doc about it. it was never painful or anything. jst a lil gross to see it pushin out my ass lol. it still does it but very minor. jst a lil iritating it still does it at all. i read around, ppl are saying anal shouldn't be painful... me and my bf talked to each other thru out our first time doing anal.. and he hardly had the tip of his dick in me and it was hurting... mayb im jst not cut out for it. too analy tight? is that possible..
i want to have anal again.. mostly for him. but i dont mind it to, i love the idea of it, its dirty and hot. but the pain is high even b4 i had these bum problems lol.
still gonna see doc tho... see wat the problem is... whatever it could be... is it all curable ... will i be able to have anal again?[/QUOTE]
all i can say is OMFG.....
How old are you?
wats with the OMFG!:o its not that bad. it sounds worse then it is.... its a problem i cant feel, no pain or anything. you can hardly c it.. but only if u look. i jst want to b completely how i was...:p i like anal.... i hav left it for over a year. im not that old:o early twentys.
gosh by the way im describing it, it sounds like my entire ass is inside out tehehe. its not. very far from. just not like a virgin ass...:rolleyes:
off to the docs to clear my conscience tho..
OMFG is for the lack of care you have for your body.... infact in my opinion
your stupid attitude towards it lead me to beleive you were very young and immature..or making it up...... sorry but thats the way I feel
your statements regarding "i don't mind it" "my b/f loves it" "but its not my favorite"
"but i do want to have it again" "i want to have anal again.. mostly for him. but i dont mind it to"
make me think you are only doing it to keep your man or keep him happy. no matter what it is
doing to your body.
WOW.....:eek:
That was a quite a reply.
The only time I have heard of something like this was the man who tried to squat to much and the weight caused his intestines to shoot out his anus...
[QUOTE=constantlylearning;208849]WOW.....:eek:
That was a quite a reply.[/QUOTE]
oh hi there CL:D where have you been hiding ?
yup was quite a reply.. just my opinion that I needed to voice.
Also putting it in the "pleasing him" thread is disturbing to me.
[quote=plugmeinbaby;208753]no never seen a doc about it. [/quote] Dear...get your rump to a doc. and stop this absurd behavior. How do you know what you have? You could even have a prolapse.
Stop the BS of "oh..never seen the doc, I think it was this or that, or virgin butt stuff". See a doc and knock the stuff off. You are responsible for your body, now act like you own it.
Hi, yourself Nutty.:D You did seem somewhat outraged
on the topic. LOL. I think it was the OMFG that gave it
away.:p
[QUOTE=constantlylearning;208879]Hi, yourself Nutty.:D You did seem somewhat outraged
on the topic. LOL. I think it was the OMFG that gave it
away.:p[/QUOTE]
Yeah I know ... Its times like this when you need a brick wall to
bang your head on.....
Just be careful with those bricks you might hurt yourself if you aren't
careful. LOL
heheheh yeah they are pretty hard :p
Yeah, that would be "nutty".........:p
heheheh sorry CL I dissapeared last night. it was Valentines Day here
and we both got the flu lol.. so you could imagine how exciting it was here.
Sorry to hear about the flu bug. It seems to be bad in several parts of the US
as well. It was Valentines Day here as well and I glad mine was a little more
eventful. I know that Valentines Day is very commericalized (at least here) but
it really is fun to do something special for those that are important to you. Hope
you feel better soon.
[QUOTE=constantlylearning;208918]Sorry to hear about the flu bug. It seems to be bad in several parts of the US
as well. It was Valentines Day here as well and I glad mine was a little more
eventful. I know that Valentines Day is very commericalized (at least here) but
it really is fun to do something special for those that are important to you. Hope
you feel better soon.[/QUOTE]
Nice to hear you had a great V day.. grr poor me havent had any for 2 days now...it's killing me lol
You poor dear....I bet you are going "nuts" about now. You are even
growling ("grrrr").....NOT GOOD. LOL.