Hi everybody,
For quite a while now, I have been really interested in anal play. Problem was, I didn't know how to do it effectivly. When I first tried it, I always rushed through it, failing to take my time and enjoy the experience.
Today, I tried a new technique to relax myself more. Lubing up my fingers with KY, I started to make little circle movements between my buttocks. Once I had got the whole area nice and slippery, I gently started to move my fingers in a circular motion on the opening of my arse. I didn't insert them, I just massaged the area really. I did this in many different position. On my back, on all fours etc. I had all sorts of naughty throughts whilst doing it. I could feel my arse relaxing, and I slowly inserted a finger. It still feels a bit strange, but I am getting used to it. I then moved my finger in and out quite quickly, and did this whilst masturbating. It presents an incredible feeling. When I was ready, I began to finger myself harder, masturbate harder, and then I came. It produces more cum when you masturbate this way, and it feels so much better.
I going to do it again very soon, and eventually I am going to try it with a vibrator.
As someone who has spent some time in adult shops, don't worry too much about it. I'm sure you coming in to buy a vibrator won't even register with the staff and everyone else there is there for much the same reasons you are. I know you might feel uncomfortable, but you really shouldn't. Oh, and one other thing... no one knows or needs to know you're buying the vibrator for yourself (not that that should embarrass you either). It could be for your girlfriend... hmmm... or girlfriends.lol
Schumi, you might want to consider buying your next toy online...sexinfo101 has a very good sex toy store!
As far as going into an adult bookstoe goes, yes, it can be akward at first, but you DO get used to it
As far as anal play goes, it sounds like your'e well on your way to exploring a new part of your body!
Wanna add to the feeling...get 1 or 2 clothes pins....and while you are fingering yourself (or with a vibrator)....take the clothes pins and put them on your nipples....the sensory overload of anal play, masturbation and clothespins on your nipples should give you one heck of an orgasm!
[QUOTE=Quote (oberon @ Oct. 06 2004,13:21)]LOL... yes, anal play isn't something you can rush through. I'm glad you slowed down and enjoyed the experience. Good luck with the vibrator... just remember to start slow (and small) and work up.
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The vibrator I have is quite big, about 7 iches long. Maybe I need a smaller one, but I'd find it really embarrassing to walk into a sex shop and buy a vibrator, lol.
There is a shop nearby to me as well. Maybe I could pop in.
LOL... yes, anal play isn't something you can rush through. I'm glad you slowed down and enjoyed the experience. Good luck with the vibrator... just remember to start slow (and small) and work up.