I have and no, it is NOT something to be taken lightly.
If you don't want to, then ladies, just say NO.

frankly I can't see anything in anal especiallt for a girl I think perhaps it is a stupid idea to advoid a condom but that is still recomended

prefer vaginal. am not a fan of things going on behind me!! :p
i like the fact that i can look my boyfriend in the eye when we're so close :) but i'm a hopeless romantic so...!

Vaginal.

Have you done anal yourself? If you had you would know why not.
Try this - take a 7 inch long 6inches around dildo and shove it up there. Fun huh?

LOL!!!! so so so true evilevilkitten ;)

Well the thing is so many guys ask women to do things that they themselves cannot stand - hey, FAIR IS FAIR. Be a little more sensitive, guys, and try it out first before you go asking her to do it. Take it up your ass once or twice before you go asking her to. No cheating now! Get her a strap-on the same size as you are. Who knows? You may like it.

This has been a recurring topic for years. I know of no women who prefer anal to vaginal. Some have learned to enjoy vaginal.

Medically, anal is not a good idea. The vagina is forty cells thick and stretches amazingly; the rectum is one cell thick and alwasy tears - at least until you get it stretched out. The anus is designed as a one-way valve - outward. The vaginal entrance is designed to accomodate things going in as well as out.

In the long term, I will guarantee hemorrhoids. Don't bother to flame me; I am not saying next year but we all tend to age and, as we do, incontinence tends to become a problem. Those who actively engage in anal sex will simply have the problems at 55 instead of 65.

EvilKitten gets right to the core. Bravo. You can rim me (and I will love it) but no one is going to stick his penis in there

I've never had anal, so I can't speak from experience. But... I'm not too eager to try it. I'd like to try before I die to at least see what it's like, but I really enjoy vaginal sex and from all I've heard of anal there is just so much more preparation and chance of pain and yucky side affects. Not to mention, Brandye's post kinda scared me just now. So.... I'm good with vaginal sex!

brandye is very true there are too many risks and too much pain involved in anal. i haven't had anal sex, but i have had a boyfriend who was desperate to, so he would finger and rim me, but i just didn't feel comfortable with it.

[QUOTE=EvilEvilKitten;159860]Vaginal.

Have you done anal yourself? If you had you would know why not.
Try this - take a 7 inch long 6inches around dildo and shove it up there. Fun huh?[/QUOTE]

Had my wife try that one on me with a strap on............oh yeah I can take it...............:eek: ooooo owwwwww stop :D

As a guy I prefer vaginal sex. Doesn't mean I don't like to do a little rimming or light fingering on her anus. I don't mind a little on my self. What little we have done is truely up to her as far as how far my penis goes in. Just a few times has she had any desire at all to have me insert my penis in her anus and I let her control all the pressure so she had control on the depth. Basically she took the head and that was all. We both enjoyed that, but that is as far as we were willing to go. If she wants it she can have it, otherwise I won't do anal.

Is this to suggest that a guy who's willing to take it himself is justified in asking his girlfriend to take it? :)

thats how i took it :)

[QUOTE=LastCallCasualty13;159966]Is this to suggest that a guy who's willing to take it himself is justified in asking his girlfriend to take it? :)[/QUOTE]

Of course if he is willing to "take it" he can justifiably ask his girlfriend to "take-it"...BUT...she can 100% DECLINE!!! even if he takes it!! ;)

Haha, that's sort of how my relationship works - I take it, she doesn't. Doesn't matter to me - we please each other in other ways ;)

Well my wife and I enjoy it on an occassional basis. Maybe 5 times a year. She enjoys it. We put her vibrator in her vagina and I go in from behind. But I am partial to the good old vagina. Hasn't failed me yet:rolleyes: . And she controls everything about it as well, depth, speed, pressure, etc. It's all for her.

Does anybody know how much girth the typical anus can take? My girlfriend and I have been curious about getting bigger with our "instruments," but I don't want it to go too far without knowing what I'm getting into...something 2-2 1/2" goes through with no problem...how much bigger could I go?

Of course one can always decline anything.
But if you want to be able to ask, well, you know how that goes.
Fair is fair.

[QUOTE=little_me;160200]

i dont agree with the fact that ur sayin a guy MUST take it himself before even asks her to.[/QUOTE]

I do after all a gal is not going to feel much us guys do though. personally I nver go father than something thin that goes in easy as stimulation to the prostrate while masturbating but no nothing bigger I can't see anything in anal sex still can't figure how something that big will go in especially the oposite way it is supposed to

I once went out with a girl that loved it, even more than vaginal sex.
We did anal about twice a day for weeks. She liked it when I rammed it really hard. We didnt have vaginal sex for about a week because we both loved anal so much.

We had to stop when she got a roid from it.

[QUOTE=Brandye;159901]This has been a recurring topic for years. I know of no women who prefer anal to vaginal. Some have learned to enjoy vaginal.

Medically, anal is not a good idea. The vagina is forty cells thick and stretches amazingly; the rectum is one cell thick and alwasy tears - at least until you get it stretched out. The anus is designed as a one-way valve - outward. The vaginal entrance is designed to accomodate things going in as well as out.

In the long term, I will guarantee hemorrhoids. Don't bother to flame me; I am not saying next year but we all tend to age and, as we do, incontinence tends to become a problem. Those who actively engage in anal sex will simply have the problems at 55 instead of 65.

EvilKitten gets right to the core. Bravo. You can rim me (and I will love it) but no one is going to stick his penis in there[/QUOTE]

I only do it if she asks for it. I like it because it's ussually so more thight though, so, when I'm when a new partner I use to explore all possibilities, which include analingus, sometimes they get curious, sometimes they are uncomfortable with that. I'm not willing to ram myself even with a matchstick, so I guess is not fair on my part, but my partner always seems to enjoy so much.
A little observation from my own experience, ussually girls that like to do it hard likes it from behind, need more data to confirm that yet :rolleyes: .

never had it, dnt want to

i like face to face interaction while having sex,
hahahaha! evil kitten GOOOOD JOB!@

my opinion is my ******* is an outbox not an inbox, well my opinion at the moment anyway!!

Anal is not as bad as some women put it off to be. Actually it can be quite enjoyable with the right amount of lubrication. Ok ladies admit it, we do not have virgin sized vaginas anymore right? Well the anus to men are like having a virgin all over again. You can use anal ease for the first time and it won't hurt. Men who want to have anal with their women please don't do it in painful positions. I mean for the first time no man on top or doggy style cause that is just mean. The best way is on your side and please stimulate the clitorus the entire time. :)

We have anal sex five or six time a month. I enjoy anal as much as I do vaginal sex. Maybe not so much when we first tried it buy I love it now. Just remember to keep every thing clean don’t go form on hole to the other with out changing condom or washing very well, use lots of lube and start off very very slow!!

In my opinion anal sex can be as good or better than vaginal. There is something wild and sexy about it. I try not to indulge but once a month or so because I do not want any repercusions but the ass can and will open up to except a mans penis with no problem. My boyfreind absolutely loves it.

Hello, I am new to this forum. I prefer vaginal sex most the time. But at least ounce every 2 weeks or so. Anal all the way.I think it is because I am a real sub. I am surely at my weakest when doing anal.

Me and my current girlfriend both love anal sex. It started out with my index finger in her ass once when I was eating her out. After we finished that session she looked down and said, "Wow, your finger felt great!” Well being the indulging lovers we are we went out to the local sex toy store and picked up a nice assortment of anal toys and tried them all out, after we tried the toys she asked me if I wouldn’t mind sticking my dick up there. After a generous amount of lube we slowly slide my dick up her ass... all the way. She loved it! I got all the way in and after awile she started moving just as fast and deep as if I was in her vagina.

Well anyway next time we where fooling around she thought it'd be fun to stick her finger up my ass, and you know what? It was! So now all our toys are for both of us (We do wash the toys between asses). We like to share the anal fun; a fun thing to do is stick a beaded vibrating wand up her ass, a small butt plug up mine and then have vaginal sex... We can feel the beads from the wand in her vagina as I thrust, it's crazy.

In Jannet's posting what does "a real sub." mean?

I am new to this site and I recently wrote asking about any information for an anal virgin. The information that I got from captnpants was helpful. Are there any more tips for me (aside from the basics) that can help me achieve full penetration (we are only a finger in) and ESPECIALLY any positions, toys, or tricks that will heighten the arousal level for us "anal newbies"

Good place to start

Brandye has several Golden Posts about anal, but I wasn't able to find where they were :(

Don't think I can add anything that hasn't already been said on this subject but I do find it interesting how much interest there seems to be in these threads regaurding anal. Didn't actually count but seems to be a pretty even split between those who have tried it and liked it and those that don't want anything to do with it. Perhaps the controversy helps fuel the interest? Hmmmm...

well i'm glad for this forum and site! my bf is an anal freak! me not so much, but i don't want to deny him, but i'm also worried about health repercussions. are there archives on anal?
oh, and i prefer vaginal, but my bf thinks he can change my mind, lol. we'll see about that. :rolleyes:

[QUOTE=cher69;163149]well i'm glad for this forum and site! my bf is an anal freak! me not so much, but i don't want to deny him, but i'm also worried about health repercussions. are there archives on anal?
oh, and i prefer vaginal, but my bf thinks he can change my mind, lol. we'll see about that. :rolleyes:[/QUOTE]

It's been mentioned here various times...how much does your bf LIKE TAKING 6 inches of dildo up his poop shoot??...:eek: If he can dish it..it's obvious he must TAKE IT...if not..why not???? LOL

Would it be a problem, then, if I said that I liked six inches of dildo up my poop shoot? :) And yes, I am a guy...a straight guy.

Nope it wouldn't be an issue at all...it would show that you can take it and you would understand how your s/o might feel taking it !!...:)

One time a toy that I was using actually went so far in that it almost got lost - and it was a foot and a half long...but it felt so great for some reason!

[QUOTE=little_me;159826]do u girls enjoy anal or vaginal sex? i know some girls prefer anal but am just wantin to see how many like wot lol

and guys wot 1 do u prefer?

plz also state y u like it.

Cheers[/QUOTE]

I love vaginal a lot although I have tried anal also. I'm still getting used to it. I know I'll like it once I get more comfy with it. I've also tried both at the same time and I would have to be honest, it does feel better and it made me get wetter and cum faster.