The answer is "yes and no". Much depends upon your experiences and knowledge about sexual practices. Once you have a position on these comes potential interest or experimentation with kisses and caresses and positions. Your question suggests to me that you are at the beginning of your education. Your question is a good one.
Each of us have an interest in or a curiosity about certain practices; likewise, we also have little or no interest in others. Both positions are subject to change (or not) as we mature and acquire more knowledge and experience.
I suggest reading the Sticky posts found at the top of each forum. Many are instructional and discuss the whys and how-tos of romance and sex. One place to begin your quest for knowledge is with this: "Playing Ball" and How To Tips for Prostate Massage
This essay discusses various aspects of anal stimulation and the best way to go about it.
If you are feeling uncomfortable with the idea of anal play, or any other activity, it is usually due to a lack of information about the subject; call it a fear of the unknown. Many people enjoy anal stimulation whether it is kept strictly to the exterior of the anus, or, proceeds inside. Read the information in the link and learn why. Aftwards, if you have additional questions or concerns, please write again.
[QUOTE=pizzaboy;178225]i was wondering if its normal to feel uncomfortable if my girlfriend wants to put something in my ass like a vibrator during sex[/QUOTE]
Hell yea it's normal to have a problem with someone wanting to put something in your ass, if you don't want it there.
Right,
but enjoying anal stimulation doesn't make you bi/gay. It's just another area of pleasure.
Can't say whether its "normal' or not. Some people (men and women) enjoy anal stimulation whether w/ a finger or a toy. Some don't care for it at all...and some don't care either way.
Has a girl ever stimulated that area before? just massaging it or using a finger?
Usually it's more common to start out that way...then slowly move up to toys and things like that.
I mean it can't hurt to try it...might find out you like it. But if you are adamant about not having anything near that area.... just nicely let your g/f know that isn't something that turns you on.
My b/f enjoys a little fingering while receiving a BJ...but I am the one who is squimish about it lol
I've only done it a couple of times.
If you want the most INTENSE orgasm of your life - go for it! You know about the G-Spot for women, right? Well, that's where the G- Spot for men is located. Sorry but there's not a lot of room down there, so it was packed in where it could be. The anterior side of the prostate gland is where your G-Spot is and a specially made vibe is just the thing to use to stimulate it.
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The answer is "yes and no". Much depends upon your experiences and knowledge about sexual practices. Once you have a position on these comes potential interest or experimentation with kisses and caresses and positions. Your question suggests to me that you are at the beginning of your education. Your question is a good one.
Each of us have an interest in or a curiosity about certain practices; likewise, we also have little or no interest in others. Both positions are subject to change (or not) as we mature and acquire more knowledge and experience.
I suggest reading the Sticky posts found at the top of each forum. Many are instructional and discuss the whys and how-tos of romance and sex. One place to begin your quest for knowledge is with this:
"Playing Ball" and How To Tips for Prostate Massage
This essay discusses various aspects of anal stimulation and the best way to go about it.
If you are feeling uncomfortable with the idea of anal play, or any other activity, it is usually due to a lack of information about the subject; call it a fear of the unknown. Many people enjoy anal stimulation whether it is kept strictly to the exterior of the anus, or, proceeds inside. Read the information in the link and learn why. Aftwards, if you have additional questions or concerns, please write again.
[QUOTE=pizzaboy;178225]i was wondering if its normal to feel uncomfortable if my girlfriend wants to put something in my ass like a vibrator during sex[/QUOTE]
Hell yea it's normal to have a problem with someone wanting to put something in your ass, if you don't want it there.
I love it! I am bisexual and enjoy having my ass worked over.
Right,
but enjoying anal stimulation doesn't make you bi/gay. It's just another area of pleasure.
Can't say whether its "normal' or not. Some people (men and women) enjoy anal stimulation whether w/ a finger or a toy. Some don't care for it at all...and some don't care either way.
Has a girl ever stimulated that area before? just massaging it or using a finger?
Usually it's more common to start out that way...then slowly move up to toys and things like that.
I mean it can't hurt to try it...might find out you like it. But if you are adamant about not having anything near that area.... just nicely let your g/f know that isn't something that turns you on.
My b/f enjoys a little fingering while receiving a BJ...but I am the one who is squimish about it lol
I've only done it a couple of times.
If you want the most INTENSE orgasm of your life - go for it! You know about the G-Spot for women, right? Well, that's where the G- Spot for men is located. Sorry but there's not a lot of room down there, so it was packed in where it could be. The anterior side of the prostate gland is where your G-Spot is and a specially made vibe is just the thing to use to stimulate it.