only you could answer that. you and whatever girl you engage in that in could have differing opinions. virginity isn't really a cut and dry thing with everyone having the same opinion. i'd say you weren't, but others might say that you are.

I dunno what the point of that would really be but, I think you shouldn't worry so much about the word "virgin". Does it matter really? Don't do anything sexual to lose or gain a title. Do it because you want to share the experiance with your signifigant other.

[QUOTE=surajk;219335]Okay this is going to seem like a stupid question but i am still young so dont blame me and its because i wanna start off step by step.

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okay. my question is would a girl and also me still be a virgin if i put my dick in her ass just to feel what it feels inside her ass and just taking it out a second or two later and not putting it back in.

[COLOR="Blue">I agree with the reply Wahoowa gave, above. In certain parts of the world and in certain cultures, a girl/woman is considered a virgin only if her hymen is intact. If the hymen is not intact and yet the person has never been intimate, she is considered tarnished goods. Some Middle Eastern societies banish the woman forever.

In Western cultures, we take a much more liberal view of this. First of all, girls are physically much more active and many if not most will have had the hymen erode away by their early to mid teens. We have only the person's word that she is a virgin.

The definition is unclear when it comes to anal play and intercourse. Certainly she will have gained carnal knowledge to one extent or another, although, in my never to be so humble opinion, she is still a virgin in the traditional sense.
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As for following through on your notion to have anal sex with some girl, think again. First of all it is a very intimate act and one most couples work up to over time. Rarely, is this something that you do right off the bat. As a young person, you must learn early on that women have a much different view of sexuality and sex than do boys and men. What may appeal to you may not to most inexperienced girls and women who may have a long way to go before they become comfortable with their body, intimacy, trust, self esteem, and, natural curiosity.

You can feel what the anus is like and inside along the sphincter muscles by fingering the exterior and then inserting your well lubricated finger into your own cavity. These areas are most sensitive the more aroused and turned on a person is. In other words, save this form of play and stimulation until the person is very very aroused. (You will find an article that discusses the topic listed in the Index.) You can also experiment with Prostate massage by massaging this gland just before you climax--or, when you may be having trouble triggering an orgasm during a subsequent attempt as when going for multiple orgasms.

I understand having a natural curiosity about this activity; however, you are way premature in thinking you can just do this with a girl. There is much to do and learn first, beginning with establishing a relationship, earning trust, and following the A, B, C's of making out. This means beginning your explorations with a new person in your life with Necking (activities limited to above the shoulder), Petting (activities extending to above the belt w/clothes on), Heavy Petting (moving on to the breasts and partially undressing when she is ready for these increased levels of intimacy. Much later comes Foreplay in which hand jobs and oral stimulation are brought into play. Unless and until a person is ready for intercourse, I can pretty much guarantee that s/he will not be ready for any sort of anal stimulation or play. This may happen after several months of dating and making out, or it may not, depending upon the girl.

Please read the many articles listed in the Index found at the top of the main screen. You'll find much information and insight to be gleaned.

Just a warning, when you put it in, every part of your body will be telling you not to take it out until you've finished.

Just a warning.

NO she would not be a virgin and neither will you. Virginity means "no sexual contact of any kind". Hint: if the letters "sex" appear anywhere in the proper name for the activity, then you cannot do it and claim to still be a virgin: ex. anal sex - duh!

This exact question was debated quite lengthily. Do a search on anal sex. You have gotten good responses. I am on the side of "no guy is ever going to put his penis in there" - for reasons you will find on your search.

At your level of experience, there is still lots to be learned from other play that does not require the same level of sophistication as anal sex.

Ephemera makes a good point!!

Also, I never understood people having anal sex JUST to claim virginity b/c they haven't had vaginal sex... makes no sense!!!

thats up to you and her