my girlfriend isn't the one for anal sex but i want to give it to her. she's never tried it and i can't convince her to let me try. what are someways to convince her to letting me try. Also, what are some good ways to make her ejaculate. I can never find myself getting her to that point in an orgasm. Please post and reply. Thank you :]
Wed, 01/10/2007 - 04:15
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anal and ejacuation
[QUOTE=Im A Big Boy;162367]my girlfriend isn't the one for anal sex but i want to give it to her. she's never tried it and i can't convince her to let me try. what are someways to convince her to letting me try. Also, what are some good ways to make her ejaculate. I can never find myself getting her to that point in an orgasm. Please post and reply. Thank you :][/QUOTE]
Does she have any say in this or do you own her?
If you want to "give the gift of anal pentration", then I suggest you find a girl who is interested in receiving that "gift". And why do you want her to ejaculate? :confused:
This should definitly be in the "pleasing him" section, not Pleasing her =\
You shouldn't "convince" or pressure someone to do something they aren't ready for.
I have anal sex once, and that'll probably be my last. It hurt at first (had plenty of lube) and after a few minutes, it didn't hurt, but it didn't feel good either.
Some women love anal and can orgasm from it, some refuse to have any backdoor action.
Some allow fingers and toys, just not penises.
We all have different limits of what we are willing to try, sometimes it just takes being w/ someone for a long time, and earning trust and being comfortable w/ them... to do things we wouldn't normally do.
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Read Demon's post a few times. Then read "What we know," a sticky on this forum. You have little or nothing to do with your g/f ejaculating.
If you tried to convince me that a penis should go there, you would be shown the door.
No, you are not a Big Boy, just a self-centered kid.
You think its a gift? Try it out on yourself with a penis-sized strap-on! Then we can talk, buddy! Fair is fair - even in sex. If you cannot/will not receive then don't try to give.
My first post here so Hello! I'd say that there may be women out there that will be willing to do anal with you but this may not be the one. Also, I have never thought of it as something that I'm giving the woman but have always been flatered that they feel that close to me to let me do it with them. My present GF is open to it any time I'd like but we don't really do it on a regular basis. Just knowing that she loves me that much is enough for me. As for the ejaculation, I understand it's rather rare so I sure wouldn't put much empahsis on it. Oh sure it gets plenty wet down there but if you're looking for a gushing fountain, you may be in for a bit of a wait. Like I said, first post & OMHO so please be kind.