so.. im wonderin if im still a virgin cause i kind of had sex one time. heres what happend.
this guy and me had some rum and we were havin a good time and what not and then we started fooling around an then he was kind of grinding upagainst me but he knew not to entre me cause he knows ima virgin. btw he's really quite small down there!!!! enyway. so then i felt somethin totally different from what ive ever felt befor. it went on for like 15 sec. it was different, but a really good kind of different! then he got a weird look on his face an said "sorry, i cant do this" and i didnt want to ask if what i think happend happened. i didnt want to seem stupid!!!
what do you guys think??/
Thu, 03/06/2008 - 06:07
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am i a virgin????
Dear Unsure,
Please, pretty please, stop with the idk like hey the um techy speak ya know duh??? And get a brain.
No more sex for you until you are on Birth Control and he's wearing condoms. Stop drinking alcohol. It ruins what little judgment you have.
Take control of your body, and your life.
Before something or someone else does.
no he wasent wearin a condom : ( but its been a few weeks an i had my period and everything!!
i'm prety sure that he was inside me, but ive never done it before so idk. and he is really small, like think roll of quarters no exxageration!!!
i was drunk but it was soo much different than anything else and ive done evrythin but vaginal and anal.
Ummm well...
1. I hope he had a condom on.
2. Loss of virginty is a personal matter, but probably for most people it means "penis+vagina intercourse/insertion" So I guess it would depend on if that happend, and if thats what you view as loss of virginity. Its not set in stone really.
3. What do you mean by different? If he inserted his penis, I'm sure you would have felt or noticed it. I don't understand how you couldn't have known what was going on...unless you were that heavily intoxicated.
If you cannot figure out what happened how do you expect us to? I'd suggest you figure it out fast, dear & start getting responsible real fast....
ditto to sera. And what difference does it make. If you do not know whether you were entered, and you did not end up pregnant or diseased, it could hardly make any difference.
By the late teens about half of all women have no sign of their hymen remaining anyway.
So basically the WORST CASE SCENARIO here is that you possibly might no longer be a virgin. If so, will you change your game from prude to promiscuous because of a few inches of penetration?
Or worse case scenario you have gonorrhea?
Drunk hook-ups are a bad idea, because, most of the time the condom won't get on properly, if at all.