The other night me and my boyfriend were messing around, just doing a bunch of foreplay and all that good stuff.
He wanted to see how far he can go in me, so i let him....then we both go carried away, but he didnt break my hymen, i kept wondering if i'd still be considered a virgin?
Another question is, it normal to feel sore after somthing like that?
My definition of losing virginity would be any act of vaginal penetration.
That said, losing it is not necessarily a bad thing.
Cheers,
Ringo
i duno to me soon as you have a penis... in there... lol you arent a virgin no more.
yea i just read that and i saw one part was hard to read . So yea here:
Doing it once then dening it is ...
I dont knwo if it was too hard to read but just incase
yeah
if i was already w/ a guy and his penis was touching my vagina i would just go ahead and do it..lol. i mean you are already that far into it.
umm... i dont think so sorry.
I do on the other hand think u can say u still dont want to have sex yet.
U have crossed a line , but u still can say it was a slip and stopping urself from doing it now is ( in my opion) just as , if not more honorable as bieng a total vergin. Doni it once then deniing it becuse of the risks is still a very big thing.
Dont sweat it u can still easly have that whole "I want to save myself" thing
Everyone falls but not everyone getts up. Just rember that!
Anyhows good luck
Honestly, it really doesn't matter how long you did it and how long he was at it and inside of you. You laid down. You did the deed.
But really, 2 minutes is a lot longer than most people who question afterwards if they are still a virgin or not.
And, on top of that, a lot of guys can come within 2 minutes. It doesn't take a whole lot sometimes.
Oh shit, ya i don't know if my hymen may already be broken, but we were only at it for 2 minutes.....i just wanted to see what it would feel like for awhile
lol, man i don't know what to think, but thank you for your comments
We have only been together for 2 weeks, and i wanted to wait
hmmm, thats a tough one. i mean there was actual penetration even tho it wasn't fully.
your hymen might already be gone.
my first time wasn't that painful. my hymen was already gone due to tampons and fingering.
im sure its normal for a little soreness since im sure he stretched you a little.
It all depends on your defenition of being a virgin.
Penetration was made so no, I don't think you're a virgin. It doesn't matter if your hymen breaks or not. Your hymen does not equal virginity by any means because even after sex, some people's hymen can still be intact while others lost their hymen years ago from fingering or stretching or atheletic activity.
But back on subject.
To me, being a virgin is consentual (sp?) penetration. You let him do this and even stated then you both got carried away. That to me says it wasn't forced and therefore, you're not.
However, some only consider you not being a virgin when somebody comes.
So really, it's all up to you.
And yes, it's normal. I was sore for a couple days after my first time.