im 15 yrs old, and just started doing things with girls where there is contact with penis. (hand,head) those things. when they do them i last only like 30 seconds, but when i jack off it takes like 10-25 minutes? what's my problem?
Thu, 06/07/2007 - 06:37
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am i pre-mature?
The girls feel different, that's all. Not a huge deal. You are use to how you feel. Now you should begin focusing on the girls, on how they work and their desires.
Agreed. Having someone else do something to you is a completely different feeling then your own hand. Thus you can get more excited with the new feeling as well as it could just feel better. It's nothing to be worried about or ashamed of. After a little bit it should go so quickly.
whats average for all you guys when getting hand or head? 5 minutes? also does it usually take longer to cum when ur having sex or getting hand/head?
There is no average - everyone is different.
I wouldn't worry too much, just keep having fun; it's more important for you to learn how the female body works. The penis is easy, the vagina is a complex riddle that takes experience and training to conquer.
I can masturbate as fast as I want, really, but I generally like to set aside at least fifteen minutes in a private place.
It takes me about ten or so minutes from head. Any longer should be considered rude, really. Who wants to give a thirty minute blow job, honestly?
Also, if you get off really fast with a girl, just start pleasuring her. Because you're young you'll get it up again fast (if it even goes down at all, mine doesn't, often), and then it should naturally take you longer.
Happy Humpin'
If you focus upon her during intercourse, you will last longer.
5 to 10 minutes of actual intercourse per each position seems to be acceptable for most.
No one wants to do fellatio for 30 minutes. Your neck gets stiff.
Honestly my husband goes for at least hour. If I need more he will keep going. Just the way it is. But everyone is so different. As for head, i can get him in about 20 mins. Hand jobs he is not really into other then for teasing.
more than likely it is the exitment of having a girl do it. remember it is curteous to return the favour you might get more back right away
The reply I most often give to this question of response time is that a guy becomes much more aroused and turned on when in the company of a girl than when he is buy himself. That said, the reason you are having trouble lasting is because you are just really really excited compared to when you are doing the deed by yourself.
These suggestions about focusing on her are right on!! Ignore yourself and get pleasure through her moaning and scratches on your back :D! When its your turn, think about something other than getting off or the feeling your receiving, keep your mind off it and tense up your PC muscles (the ones that you tighten to stop peeing), doing that keeps you from comming most of the time. You can also practice while masturbating by doing the start stop, get very close to O then stop, repeat many times. Also, if you really wana supprise her, learn to have multiple O's :p. Its tough for guys to keep goin right after an O, but you practice and keep your mind on the pussy, and "You can do anything you put your mind to" literaly.
Enjoy those girls :)
As a teen, I thought the normal state of a penis was erect! And I found most of them spurted pretty quickly. I also discovered that did not matter because they recovered and kept on going.
If you are getting this close, you and she should have both condom and vaginal spermicide handy. The vaginal jelly needs an applicaotr but it is lubricating as well as protective.