Am I just old fashioned?
ok so i personally think that Without naming names of course all these instances are just wrong.
just 15 year old girl,on the pill has had sex with numerous guys in the last few months,theyre ages range from hers to perhaps as far as 20.thats not to mention the blow jobs etc.(she has not known any of these people romantically for more then a month or 2 mostly less than that)
16 year old girl gives head 3 different times to a guy she just met in one day.does all i mentioned above since she was 15 as well.
13 year old already well on her way i dont even want to talk about about well say just about not a virgin.
now imagine all these girls are just descriptions to half the girls in this town.
anyone think its wrong?im asking an honest question to find out if its just my perspective that needs tuning.oh and I know i mentioned no Guys here,but thats a different discussion.
I don't think this is "wrong," I think it is a matter of personal choice. That is not the way I live my life, but if someone else wants to live their life like this, then it's fine by me. At a young age, I think you may come to regret being very promiscuous, and I do think unfortunately girls who are very promiscuous often do this to get attention or because they are insecure. I also think that it is very important that anyone who wants to be promiscuous use condoms in whatever they do and make sure that they and their partner are protected.
Beyond being safe and emotionally stable, if you want to have a lot of sex, fine. I think what is important is that you are doing this for yourself, not for someone else. I'm all for being open with your sexuality and enjoying your pleasure as long as this is done in a safe, responsible manner and no harm is being done.
sorry i was going to attach a poll hencewhy its in the polls section i just kind of changed it into a discussion topic instead by accident sorry.
I think it is wrong but I also think that it happens when sex isnt explaind to kids by their parents or in an educaitonal way. When I was very young I found out about sex and all the dangers and why I should wait. I was 15 when I lost my virginity and I dont regret it because I was in love, I have had sex with 3 boys who I was madly in love with and we dated for a long time. The onther 4 however where not sex more like me passing out and them doing whatever. I did drugs because they were never explained to me, I had safe sex and did it with whom I loved because it was explained to me at the right time and in the right mannor. I was in 6th or 7th grade when it was taught to me, and it helped me make very good discisions. And not just the school taught me about it so did my parents and it made me understand how sex can be good at the right age. I just wish drugs were explained to me the same way so i could change the 4 mistakes that happend to me. This is why i think sex ed should be taught either by the parents or school because kids are having sex younger and younger
[COLOR="DarkRed">I think I am old-fashioned as well, though.... I didn't get sexual until late high school. I never understood why kids were starting so early - it only caused unnecessary drama from what I could see.
But I know, when the time comes, and I have children of my own, I will be sure to explain all I can. I was brought up to believe that the less mystery there is, the less likely the kids are to go exploring it the wrong way....[/COLOR]
exactly! the more I knew about sex, the less interested i was to have it, I wanted to wait until I found the right person and I felt mentally ready to handle what could happen. It was also explained to my other friend as clear as I was and she waited until she was 17-18 to do anythiing, and I think its just because if saex is shown and not hidden and thought of something as gross and wrong cause it will just make them want to know why.
I'm old-fashioned here too. I don't do casual sex, and I think that most people should wait longer than they did. It's not my decision, however, so I don't bring it up.
I'm pretty old fashioned too, though I'm only 17. I feel that sexual affairs should be precise and calculated, not with just about anyone. Heck, I'm still a virgin eventhough I'm madly in love with the same girl for 5 years now. I feel that my sexuality is like Eden's garden, only the right person can open up those massive doors to seek out the pure pleasure of the forbiden apple. I do not believe in "bang anything with what hangs on you" I feel that sex should be a true sign of love and desire, as it was thought a couple of years back.
Truly yours,
LePuceau (French for the "Virgin guy")
There is no morality in the world anymore for girls that age to be doing that is really sad that they have no respect for themselves.
Actually not much has changed, anyone alive during the 60's would know how their parents felt about too much sexual activity in teens.