Hello this is my first post on this forum and i need your advice on something...
My girlfriend and I have tried to have intercourse twice now and each time when I've gone to put the condom on I lose my erection, my g/f said that i could be allergic to something used in the condoms, what are the chances that this could be the reason, would i not show other signs of reaction to the condom other than just the loss of my errection?? (such as a rash or other)
It's not like a had trouble holding an errection as once the condom was taken off i was soon errect again and had no problem keeping it till we had finished touching and stuff.
Thanks in advance.
Its common to go limp the first time you have had sex before or right after. It happed to me, after you guys have sex, the next time it will stay hard longer
Definatly not allergies.....trust me..if u were allergic to latex you'd know!
Sounds like you're having psychological issues......many young folks who initially begin having sex have the same problems..usually its due to upbringing (religious issues, parental warnings, etc).
In many cases its actually a good thing as it makes many reconsidder if they are really ready for the responsbility of sex....many young men think they are ready for sex, but the fear of getting a gal pregnant, std's or disappointing a parent or their religious upbringing causes them to lose their erection.
My advice, enjoy foreplay. Mutual masturbation, oral sex, and let your body and mind together tell u when u are ready.
sounds to me like it could be nerves rather than an alergic reaction (as you are not experiencing any swelling or discomfort) so try to relax
lots of foreplay!