Well, i like this site cuz it talks about alot of things. I understand that it is very common for men to have premature ejaculation. Ive used some of the methods in here. But i've encountered something very strange to me. Whenever i find myself in a close moment of orgrasm i try to control it pulling it out and pinchin and all that. What truly bothers me is that while im doing this im trying to pleasure the lady. After that, i cant seem to get back up though. Instead of having an orgasm and not being able to get up, i've stop myself and STILL, it drops and i have trouble gettin back up. By this time, the girl im with is dried up by the time i finally do get back up. What's my situation? also, i am new to sex. THanks
Wed, 07/09/2003 - 19:05
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Am i abnormal?
Hi World! Well..how old ARE you? How much experience do you have in having sex with a partner?
How often do you masturbate? For me, if I konw i'm going to have sex with my partner later that nite/day, i make sure and masturbate a few hours before! Wether you're 19 or 39, masturbating a few hours before will help lengthen the time from erection to orgasm!
Some other ideas:
- change positions often. This will give you a break from the sensation and keep variety in your lovemaking
- SLOW DOWN! Try and keep from "jackhammering" your partner and go with slower deeper penetration
- More oral! When you feel you're getting close, slowly pull out, and go back down and lick her clitoris ..this keeps HER hot, and gives you a break!
- Try a cockring: Wether you're 19 or 39, using a cock ring will help keep your cock erect when you're NOT actually having intercourse. Buy the adjustable kind and you'll find that it can really help!
Hope these ideas help you!