Okay so all these threads talk about bleeding and pain the first few times...or at least the first time. I understand why everyone could feel pain...but do they always bleed on their first time? And is this because the hymen is not fully "worn" away so their is tearing and things of that nature.
Tue, 07/31/2007 - 04:16
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Always bleed the first time?
Some do bleed, some do feel pain while others feel one but not the other or feel neither! Each female is different in this regard. The fear of pain or of bleeding or of both should not deter you.
Its not that it deters me, its just that I wonder.
My first time was a big nothing - no pain, no bleeding, no real excitement. I was in a hurry to get rid of my virginity and that was about all that happened.
Some women have particularly tough hymens; some women have tensing problems; some are able to relax and many of us have long since shredded our hymens - maybe or maybe with a few drops of blood over our active teen lives. I doubt that there are intact hymens in half the 16 yo I examine. I make no assumptions based on that.
i used to masterbate as a teenger before i lost my virginity so i didnt bleed at all because my hymen had already broken but when i did loose my virginity it did hurt because it felt like maybe my pelivs was to tight or something so it sort of elt like it was splittling, but that's all that happend with me
i dont not bleed the first time i had sex, nor was it painful, just a lil awkward
I had a great first time. Felt good, no bleeding, just fun. It helped that I stretched myself out a bit before having sex, with fingers and objects. I was also really comfortable with my bf, so my muscles were nice and relaxed.