This is kind of embarasing to say but here it goes. There were times where I wouldn't wear underware around the summer weather. Not all the time just sometimes, just to tease my hubby and that sort of thing. Well..... yesterday we had sex twice....or tried to. The first time it was fine and then the second it was great when he was inside but when he pulled out and rubbed his dick on the outside I got a sharp pain. It kinda ruined the mood terribly for the both of us. I couldn't really see or tell what it was. but this morning I went to see after I took a shower and it was a sore like thing. but it just hurts at one point.
Now my question is, also considering that I am not that sexually experienced. 
What are some alternatives that I can try? Keep in mind that he doesn't like oral that much. I don't know if I do it right or if he 's not just interested.
Any feedback or suggestions would be most greatful.
Thanks!
[QUOTE=Quote ]There were times where I wouldn't wear underware around the summer weather. Not all the time just sometimes, just to tease my hubby and that sort of thing.[/QUOTE]
I'm not sure I understand how this relates to your problem. Could you explain?
[QUOTE=Quote ]The first time it was fine and then the second it was great when he was inside but when he pulled out and rubbed his dick on the outside I got a sharp pain. It kinda ruined the mood terribly for the both of us. I couldn't really see or tell what it was. but this morning I went to see after I took a shower and it was a sore like thing. but it just hurts at one point. [/QUOTE]
The sore sounds like it could be herpes. You should have it looked at by a doctor asap.
[QUOTE=Quote ]Now my question is, also considering that I am not that sexually experienced. What are some alternatives that I can try? Keep in mind that he doesn't like oral that much. I don't know if I do it right or if he 's not just interested. [/QUOTE]
Are you looking for ways to please him or ways to please yourself? Either way, mutual masturbation may be the best answer. Here are links to some tips:
hand techniques (pleasing him)
fingering techniques (pleasing her)
Until you are certain that this is not herpes or another STD, you need to be extra careful. Do not have vaginal or oral sex while the sore is present. Once it is gone, use a condom during vaginal sex and fellatio, and use a dental dam during cunnilingus. You should not touch his penis after touching your own genitalia, unless you wash your hands first. Likewise, if he touches your genitalia he should wash his hands before touching his own. This may turn out to be nothing, but avoid taking chances until you know for sure.
The problem is that my shorts or jeans would rub up against the left side of my vagina. That is what caused the sore, this has happened to me a few times. I wouldn't wear underware to tease him at times. Like iof we were at the mall or something and he would secretly grab my a$$ or something. I was just wandering of what things I could have done at the time (since we were both heated at the time) what other options I couild go for if something like this happens again and we can't have sex and he is not really interested in oral that much. It's completely fine now. We have had sex many times I hae not cheeted or been with anyone else but my husband. The sore is gone already, IU really appreciate the concern.
*hugs* Thank you for the added link I will be sure to take a look in a min.
Again thank you.
I see what your saying now. Still, I also often go without underwear, and have not had this problem. Unless you are 100% positive that this is what has been causing these sores, I would get tested just in case. If you are 100% sure, buy some different jeans!
Not a thing we like to confront. If there is any possibility that either of you has been with the wrong person, get it checked. It could be a herpes sore.
Assuming you are both clean and honest, it is most likely a pimple or ingrown hair. They can really be uncomfortable at the darnedest times.
Man i get the feeling that he really doesn't listen to you. The whole thing about he doesn't really enjoy giving you oral sex and the thing about you questioning your doing it for him. But that is another topic
I agree with the person above ingrown hair or a pimple i sometimes get those... if it doesn't go away in a couple of weeks or if you get more i would say go to the doctor and get you and him checked out:)