I don't think a condom would cause that.

No a condom wouldnt cause that. There are condoms that you can get that make it more sensitive, try those. If hes still not happy, honestly I think hes faking it.

A phrase that I was told;

'having sex with a condom is like doing the laundry with your socks still on'
'well then find another place to do your laundry'

Okay typing that out makes it look all weird and sound stupid but it always made sense to me.
Basically my moms friend Ellie's boyfriend wanted to have sex with Ellie without a condom and thats what he used as an excuse. So Ellies response was he better find another place to do his laundry.

Honestly, yet there are other birth control methods you can use, female condom, cervix cap etc list goes on, but really the condom is (as least I would think so, mabye I'm wrong?) among the highest affective methods.

It also protects you from std's etc. So its for your well being as well as preventing pregnancy. If he has a problem with wearing one then he has a lack of concern for your well being and is an ass. Maybe he's just not as excited as he use to be.

You could try another method of birth control such as the female condom is you want to. Or just try the condoms that go for a more sensitive experience. If he is looking for completely bare back with no form of protection then dont listen to him.

You are up against one of the oldest male hang-ups and manipulations in the world: anyway to get in there bare. Do not give in. And use spermicidal jelly, too, for really effective birth control.

Actually every time I use a condom it significantly effects my sex. It takes me longer to cum, and it feels no where near as good. Without a condom you feel the skin, the warmth the moisture, its just crazy. I'm in love with the feeling. But with a condom all you really feel is a lil warmth and the only moisture is the lube.Condoms may not make for the greatest sex for guys but it sure makes it safer.

He's just trying to "cop" out from using a condom...maybe tell him once we are MARRIED you can dip bareback "every time"...

Macafra,

I believe you; condoms slow things down. We women ALL encounter every con job you can imagine to "just let me put it in bare." The results are more serious than slow coming.

I, for one, hate condoms. In my experience, they desensitized sex so much that I would often lose it. Maybe there are better condoms nowadays, but the ones I tried back in the day simply cut the sensation down about 75%.

Now if he's been successfully using them for a year, I don't know why he would suddenly have problems. Maybe you can do something to spice up the sex?

Yea I agree Brandye, they mow slow sex, but they make it safe. And having safe, fun sex is most important. Besides, lasting longer isnt always a bad thing is it hehe

Hey, I have the same problem...I barely ever ejaculate when I have sex. They usualy call it quits before I do. Try having him stand while sex. I've found to get better blood flow while like this. If he still doesn't "get off" try talkin' dirty and slappin him around!

Look, people, condoms COMPLETELY changes how sex is for men. This does not mean we shouldn't use them. But sex feels NOWHERE near as good with it on. And it will effect my performance to the point of: not cuming, going a bit limp, mentally losing the moment, loss of lube...

Now these things don't always happen. It depends on my lover. I can always perform in the long run, but if I'm not completely turned on by my lover at the time, a condom can mess things up. I'm a very mental lover as it is, losing a large percentage of feeling doesn't help my drive.

I hate to be the first to bring this up, but I don't think this is your lovers problem at all. He used to cum all the time? NOW he doesn't? I think it's more of a loss of interest in you, sex, or his drive. The condom isn't the issue. The issue is in your two's connection. I'm just trying to be honest--I know it sounds curt.

[QUOTE=M1chae1]Look, people, condoms COMPLETELY changes how sex is for men. This does not mean we shouldn't use them. But sex feels NOWHERE near as good with it on. And it will effect my performance to the point of: not cuming, going a bit limp, mentally losing the moment, loss of lube...

Now these things don't always happen. It depends on my lover. I can always perform in the long run, but if I'm not completely turned on by my lover at the time, a condom can mess things up. I'm a very mental lover as it is, losing a large percentage of feeling doesn't help my drive.

I hate to be the first to bring this up, but I don't think this is your lovers problem at all. He used to cum all the time? NOW he doesn't? I think it's more of a loss of interest in you, sex, or his drive. The condom isn't the issue. The issue is in your two's connection. I'm just trying to be honest--I know it sounds curt.[/QUOTE]

Well, there is the possibility that sex between the two of them is just simply becoming a bit old hat.

Precisely my point ua322.

Perhaps some spice should be added to that gumbo. Try new things, be spontaneous, new locations, new positions, add a little kink...