Hello all - ive got a question thats not really a sex topic, but hopefully i can get some ideas off your collective minds which will help me! The background to my question is that I (im 18 by the way and so is this girl) recently met a girl, and to date, we have met up a few times. But, we have only had a physical relationship. Normally i wouldnt have any worries with this, but, i really like this particular girl. And so, im looking to start a relationship with this girl and also let her know how i feel without being too overt. So, my question is - what are the small things that guys can do for you (women), that you really appreciate or let you know that a guy is not just after sex, but rather, a relationship? I guess im asking about things like holding hands, kissing on the forehead etc!
Any feedback is appreciated!
umm try being romantiic, dont try for sex so often unless you both want it, go out to the movies with her and go out to eat in a decent place, tell her she is beautiful, also try being physical without sex
Slowly and gently include her in your life. Do things where sex is not in the offing. Ask for her help when shopping for gifts to female family members. Cook dinner for her. Find out what she likes, art for example, that you might not be crazy about, get tickets, and take her there. Do you see? Buy her flowers because you got your hair cut. Yes, I know it doesn't make sense but that's the point - you were thinking of her.
After the "Physical" bit have a cuddle and a kiss?
Of course!