I'm very new on the gf scene...the girl i'm with is the first one i've really done anything serious with. We have a great time making out, and i've been able to make her cum a few times, but anytime she tries to give me a handjob I can't seem to feel it at all. I even tried to masturbate myself two nights ago and couldn't seem to feel anything. Worst of all, we decided to try sex for the first time last night and I had the same problem again. I'm not having any problems staying erect, but there doesn't seem to be any stimulation there. After we gave up last night she was very frustrated and telling me she felt inadequate. I'm pretty sure it's not her, but i can't figure out what to do. Does anyone know what might help?
Sat, 09/20/2003 - 17:47
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Ain't feeling it
well bro, im guessing that your using a condom....
Gloves suck, u dont feel much.
Try getting RIBBED, STUDDED, ULTRA THIN, EXTRA SENSATION, etc etc etc.
Try using more Lubricants.
also, try not to masturbate for a week or so... then ull explode if your underwear rub just right
I agree with demons last post. My geuss would be your to nervous. Just relax close your eyes and concentrate on the pleasure from your genitals. Dont think that your not gonna feel anything or you wont.
oh well hmm
then i dunno
maybe just since you are new to it you are nervous. some guys claim they can't get erections when they are w/ their g/fs. maybe you are kind of the opposite or something.
maybe you were nervous that you would cum tooo fast so you psyched yourself out to not feel as much pleasure so you would last longer, and now you can't feel anything.
i dunno thats just my wild guess! im sure it will work itself out in time.
I have no problem with masturbation under normal circumstances, it's just with her...and I am very sensitive to any other touch she gives while we're making out or other stuff (eg: when she licks behind my ear i can feel it all the way down my side).
hmm i dunno
maybe it has to do w/ if you are circumcised or not... uncut guys are more sensitive.
ive heard this before but they usually attribute it to too much masturbation but you just said you just recently tried it..so thats not it.
just be sure you tell your g/f not to feel like its her. b/c if you can't get off either manually or w/ her then its not her!
hopefully some guys will have a better answer as to why this is happening.
Circumcised guys are less sensitive then uncut ones, but I've never heard of something that extreme. Assuming you are circumcised you might wanna look into foreskin restoration. Its not exactly quick or easy (from what I've heard) but it can make a big difference. I'd ask your doctor about it also, there could be other options out there that I don't know about.